Lord help Ron to heal from this pain and to find the truth, also to trust again. Dear Lord I know you can heal us from our hurt when a spouse is unfaithful, for your taught me to be forgiving and to love my spouse as you love us. It didn't happened overnight but you held my hand all the way, as you healed me and my marriage. Now my husband and I are best of friends and have been very happy for the last thirty years. Only through you can we do it Lord, so help this man also to heal, and forgive his wife as you forgive us, if she really been unfaithful. Depart from him that spirit of jealousy and doubt that's seem to be attacking him. Give him wisdom, and your peace the one that only you can give us in situations like this. Safe his wife and bring her to repentance, may she become a loving faithful wife, and him a loving trusting husband. Let what he seen be only a misunderstanding of what her intentions were toward the other man, have your protection over both of them. I pray this in Jesus name, amen.

Dear Lord, Alpha and Omega, help this man see through this hard time. Help him know the truth, and help him to know what to do with the truth. No one deserves pain like this, help him see the silver lining in everything You have planned for him, and help his faith stay strong through this hard time. In Jesus Name Amen

Praying for you that you will find the truth and make peace of it. Lord, please help this man who is struggling to find the truth about what may or may not have happened. Take away his anger and hurt and heal his heart.

To poster below. Abusing a spouse (lust of another/ abusing the marriage vows) does NOT = jealousy of the abused spouse.
It is abuse. I ask that The Lord bring about truth in this marriage, that his wife treats him with respect/honor & love.
It is a slap in the face to those that have been in an abusive marriage to call the victim, "jealous."

(03-30-2011 05:36 PM)Guest Wrote:  Lord help Ron to heal from this pain and to find the truth, also to trust again. Dear Lord I know you can heal us from our hurt when a spouse is unfaithful, for your taught me to be forgiving and to love my spouse as you love us. It didn't happened overnight but you held my hand all the way, as you healed me and my marriage. Now my husband and I are best of friends and have been very happy for the last thirty years. Only through you can we do it Lord, so help this man also to heal, and forgive his wife as you forgive us, if she really been unfaithful. Depart from him that spirit of jealousy and doubt that's seem to be attacking him. Give him wisdom, and your peace the one that only you can give us in situations like this. Safe his wife and bring her to repentance, may she become a loving faithful wife, and him a loving trusting husband. Let what he seen be only a misunderstanding of what her intentions were toward the other man, have your protection over both of them. I pray this in Jesus name, amen.

To poster below. Abusing a spouse (lust of another/ abusing the marriage vows) does NOT = jealousy of the abused spouse.
It is abuse. I ask that The Lord bring about truth in this marriage, that his wife treats him with respect/honor & love.
It is a slap in the face to those that have been in an abusive marriage to call the victim, "jealous."

He who is free of sin throw the first stone. Is there any concrete proof she has committed adultery, or have abused this man, other than his demos attacking him?

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Lord have your perfect will be done in couple's life, spiritual and mental health, and their marriage situation. Allow the truth to come to the light. In Jesus Christ Precious Name I pray, and I thank you in advance Heavenly Father to whom all the Honor, the Glory, and the Power belongs, Amen!
Isaiah 34-16 - I'm waiting upon You Lord, help me all the way.
Mathew 18:19 - 20
"Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them.

Just because people sometimes offer advice does not mean that you are not in their prayers. The advice that I offer is out of friendship. We are all Christians here and I know that there are times when it is nice to hear what others say. A little friendly advice can sometimes help a person when they are upset or feeling down. If that is not what you want then I apologize for offending you in any way.

Lord, please help Ron to find the answers that he is seeking. Let him be at peace with whatever the answers may be and help him to remain strong. Amen.

Father this man is in a lot of pain, hug him Lord hold him please heal his heart and bring out the truth out of such a sensitive situation.

Amen

From what this man is shared, this wife is being disrespectful.
I have heard story after story of divorce Because of a cheating, lustful spouse that could care less if the marriage remains.

(03-31-2011 09:58 AM)Guest Wrote:  To poster below. Abusing a spouse (lust of another/ abusing the marriage vows) does NOT = jealousy of the abused spouse.
It is abuse. I ask that The Lord bring about truth in this marriage, that his wife treats him with respect/honor & love.
It is a slap in the face to those that have been in an abusive marriage to call the victim, "jealous."

He who is free of sin throw the first stone. Is there any concrete proof she has committed adultery, or have abused this man, other than his demos attacking him?

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Lord have your perfect will be done in couple's life, spiritual and mental health, and their marriage situation. Allow the truth to come to the light. In Jesus Christ Precious Name I pray, and I thank you in advance Heavenly Father to whom all the Honor, the Glory, and the Power belongs, Amen!
Isaiah 34-16 - I'm waiting upon You Lord, help me all the way.
Mathew 18:19 - 20
"Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them.

My husband cheated on my 14 years ago. In fact, I was pregnant at the time. The Lord was the only thing that got me through it. In fact, I had no idea what was going on. On day, he came crying to me. I did forgive him, but I will never forget it. We have been married for 22 years now. I will pray that God will put guilt in her and force her to reveal what she has been doing.

My prayer for you and your wife is that this has all been a misunderstanding. Since he was a friend of the family, for all we know she could had been giving him some counseling or praying for him as a sisterly brotherly relationship.
Heavenly Father I pray the truth does come out and that this woman has not been unfaithful to her husband at all, but that she was just being kind to a friend of both her husband's and hers. May they be able to walk forward with forgiveness and trust in their heart. May they be as forgiving as you are to us even while we are still sinners.
Give them your peace and wisdom to work at their marriage without accusations, misunderstanding, infidelity, and allow you to work in them and their marriage. I ask this of you in Jesus name, amen.