(12-09-2011 02:43 AM)paula0331 Wrote:  loveworthfightingfor.com or fireproof the movie

There is no love left. It has been abused out of me. If you want me to do more pleasing just so I can get hurt more then no thank you.

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(12-09-2011 02:43 AM)paula0331 Wrote:  loveworthfightingfor.com or fireproof the movie

I think perhaps I should explain myself to you a little better. I am not one to be abused and want to stick around. The bottom line for me is if God wants me to stay with my husband then fine but if not and if I am meant to be with someone else or no one else then that is fine too.

I don't believe that love is abuse. And relationships are two way streets. I believe and have experienced that abuse kills love over time. If I were to want to be abused and continue to love someone who abuses me then I think that I would have a serious problem.