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Son is angry, behavioral problems, don't know where to turn.
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Son is angry, behavioral problems, don't know where to turn.

Our home is crazy, husband divorcing me and sleeping in house next door he now owns, both houses need fixed and he has to fix the house up next door to get occupancy permit. Usually his girlfriend there too. Divorce in January or February. I have no skills or job or money to live. My son and daughter have grown up in this bad marriage and coming divorce and adultery, our 9 year old son is angry, destroys things sometimes when mad, bites me, kicks and punches me but is nice to my husband usually and the girlfriend which makes me look like I'm a horrible parent and husband good parent. My husband works evenings/nights and hardly with kids. Past 18 months he's spent more time with kids and since September after cleaning out house next door, he sleeps there every day, takes showers at our house since shower/tub there needs fixed and still buys us groceries and utilities still on here as of now. The kids go over to house next door on his days off of work to spend time with him and girlfriend, he pushed gf on kids past year or more so he can get custody and have her watch the kids while he's at work and she isn't a stranger to the kids. Please pray he doesn't get there house fixed up and doesn't get permit. Pray God delays any plans or stops plans my husband has. Please pray I can get job I can live on with good hours and bus transportation. Pray I can get money for some new clothes and buy a warm winter coat to wear to be outside. My clothes are old. I need decent clothes for a job. I'm at home by myself 5 days a week when kids in school and don't have help or much support. I'm shy, average intelligence but feel stupid, no confidence. I'm living but have no life. I want to find apartment, my mom is supposed to move in with me this month but she has little money, get a 3 bedroom apartment and move out of here, can't afford mortgage here, high gas bills, house cold in winter, need energy efficient/insulated apartment, low utilities. Please pray for my kids, they don't have a normal life and I'm afraid for their future. They aren't doing well in school and disturbed. Don't know what to do? Don't think secular counseling is the answer. Hard to find or "afford" Christian counseling. My church doesn't either seem to care or no resources. I can't think about marrying again either, no man would want me with no career and my son would scare men away with his mouth and actions. My husband I think is going to get kids and steamroll over me. I feel helpless to help kids.
12-04-2015 01:07 PM
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Lord, please step in in this situation. Please help this person to choose one thing first to figure out and work on, and please help her do it. Then please help her to pick the next thing to figure out and then do it. You know her needs. Thank You for Your guidance and love in her life. In Jesus's holy name I pray and give thanks, Amen
12-04-2015 08:50 PM
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You need deliverance in Jesus' name.
12-05-2015 01:13 AM
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God, help us humble before You, trust in Your name alone and not.on men as we have been doing. Forgive and heal this family, in Your mercy and grace.
12-05-2015 01:39 AM
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There is two story in a divorce situation. The kids must had been this way for a long time, they don't just decide to wake up one day and become this way. Look down into your own self and see what part you too had in this marriage to create such a mess of it and in your kids.
Lord show this person your true path, and how to be a better person. May she stop always putting the blame on others and take some responsibility for herself. Have your perfect will be done in all involved in this situation. Bring repentance and salvation to all involved, and help these children. In your holy name Jesus Christ I pray amen.
12-05-2015 07:42 AM
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God, i can feel for this mother asking help. i want to bring her to You, it also tells me the need to love and give more, take responsibility. May othr younger women learn of the capable wife in prov.31, with strong arms and teachable.wc i havent had. Also need friends wc i havent.
We ask for help and miracle, for we cannot do ths on our own. Please honor our plea, and deliver frm falling anymore. Grant us Jesus to renew us thru and thru, as was Your will from the start.
12-05-2015 07:51 PM
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Please Lord help us all in similar situations amen

(12-07-2015 04:16 AM)Guest Wrote:  Please Lord help us all in similar situations amen
Lord we bind and rebuke your enemy away from all of us and loved ones situation Now. And especially the children who suffer more from this, Give us all Your hope peace and joy. In Jesus name, Amen
12-07-2015 04:16 AM
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Lord please have mercy on this family and i pray that Lord's will be done in this family Amen
In Jesus Name i speak life and freedom and healing over this family Amen
Psalms 107:20 Amen
Isaiah 54:17 Amen
Isaiah 53:5 Amen

Warrior Blessed and holy are those who share in the first resurrection.For them the second death holds no power, but they will be priests of God and of Christ and will reign with him a thousand years.
02-07-2017 05:17 AM
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