(10-04-2013 11:43 AM)Guest Wrote: dear jesus right now i am really very depressed.... i have lost all the hope from this life.. i need you badly.. i have no friends , the only person i loved from all my heart also left me some days back saying that he never loved me... and now i am as lonely as hell....at the age of 28.. i have no job, no money, no love... if you love me jesus then please help me jesus to come out from this depressing life.. i only trust you and only believe you... please give my life a new direction.. i really need your blessings..
amen.
The bible teaches in 2 Corinthians about having godly sorrow versus worldly sorrow. It says that worldly sorrow brings about death, where godly sorrow brings about repentance. When people commit suicide or give up on life, they have that worldly sorrow, and there is no reason for it. The Lord allows us to have sorrow to bring about change. Perhaps the Lord is looking to bring about a change in you life. I'm not saying you sinned or caused these things to pass, but usually trials are put in our lives to bring us closer to God in some way. My advice would be for you to ask the Lord to search your heart, and reveal to you anything that needs to change. Pray for your loved one...if he's not saved, maybe the Lord can change the situation. I'm not saying he'll come back to you, but the Lord can change his heart and at the very least, spare him from an eternity in hell.
I dated my very best friend in the world after knowing him for about two and a half years. Then, throughout the relationship, he would tell me he didn't even like me beyond friendship...yet, he did things to the contrary. He would treat me with sweetness and kindness, do things you would only do or say if you love someone. But he told me he didn't even like me "like that." It broke my heart, but I broke off all contact with him. But, the Lord brought a verse in Matthew to mind, saying, "Pray for those that despitefully use you." I saw that verse in one of my devotions for that day later, and I cried and cried.
Since that day, I have been praying for him, for his salvation, and for him to have a closer walk with God. And, I've been given peace about the situation. I have my doubts at times, but I know, ultimately, the Lord will change the situation. I don't know if the Lord will have you two to be together, but maybe this story can be an encouragement to you. I have been lonely and felt like a failure, but the Lord has me waiting on a lot of things right now: to restore my relationship, get professional job, get my own home, etc. But, I can honestly say, I have greater joy than I did the day my best friend and I argued and ended our relationship.
Trust the Lord and He'll bring you through. God bless (Proverbs 3 and 1 Peter 5:7)