PRAY FOR GUIDENCE FOR THE CHURCH, FRIEND YOU ARE NOT ALONE, THIS TAKES PLACE AT TIMES, Maybe you should attend a different church and see the difference you don't have to leave the church, see what else is out there prehaps the LOrd has something better for you. please don't take man wrong, they are alot, seek God and all his glory you will find the peace your seek.
I agree with the guest above, i did give up on church because of man, but I love God so much that my heart is overjoyed everyday. You will find what you need. Try volunteering at a food kitchen of at a mission church, you'll be richly rewarded and appreciated and can probably minister to someone>