The Holy Spirit told me to start speaking words of blessings over Gabe. If his mother is not doing this, you grandma has to lay your hand on his head and speak blessings over him. Don't focus on what is happening with him right now.

Say the following a prayer of blessing:
"May God bless you and watch over you. May God shine His face toward and show you favor. May God be favorably disposed toward you, and may He grant you peace. May the lord release you to the fulfillment the very purpose of God as he called you to ordained you. You are a gift from God to us. God loves you, Jesus loves you and we love you."

Say this prayer over him every week, and you will see the results if you doubt not. Stop talking about how bad he is, we all know where this come from. God bless you grandma Elaine for being there for him.