Ron, I believe that you are hurting & if your wife is not supportive of you & working with you in this marriage as you are asking this does not speak of you but of her. Stay in prayer over this as you are doing.
It sounds as if your heart & intentions are pure & your wife is lost & cold hearted.
I think if your wife was a strong Christian woman she would be more than happy to work with you in this marriage so you both are happy. Instead she insists on making both of your lives miserable. I've seen marriages break up over similar things. One partner is selfish & self centered.
God uses those that are faithful Christians to expose false. This could be what is going on. Your wife will have to face God for the way she is treating you, & those that are kicking you when you are being abused will as well.
Hold tight to The Lord our God, His Ways Are True & all evil will eventually be exposed. You sound as if you have a pure loving heart.
Don't give up. You are being persecuted because you love The Lord & obey HIM.

(07-11-2011 07:44 PM)Guest Wrote:  Marriage counselling did not resolve anything - wife unwilling to talk, except to say I was delusional. Don't know where this will end up. Please continue to pray that God will reveal all.

God bless u all