So you know all the facts do you and been married to her for the last 34 years?
You were also there when she held a divorced man's hands in our house and while she continually held his hands and stroked them sensously. You was sitting there was you and taking note of the body language etc while he was laughing and talking to her.

Yes I believe masturbation to be a sin if:
the masturbating person thinks of anyone else...this then is adultery

If the masturbating wife would rather masturbate than give herself to her husband.

There are many other facts that you and the other guest have no clue about.

(05-22-2011 11:31 PM)Guest Wrote:  Ron, I read through your own words describing your wife's conduct to accuse her of adultery and masturbation which sound to me that you are the one with the problems. If she continues to deny it, then maybe she is telling you the truth. Perhaps that you can't seem to trust her in any way and accuse her again for a personal act of masturbating as if she is a sinner and a lier means that she has no home to be at home. You have created a hostile environment for your spouse to live in fear and doubts and insecurity and in judgment. She maybe holding a man's hand in front of you in lovingness and still not be cheating or have to intent to cheat. It is you who has witnessed something that has set you off into jealousy and depression. The sin is not her but of yours. Perhaps God has nothing to show you since you are out of control and causing an unfit home to live in for you and your wife. Perhaps you need counseling for yourself first and then as a couple. If she saids that she did not do it, then its your job to trust her. You failed this miserably. If its a lie, God will show you in time. You did not wait for answer but accused and condemned and destroyed out of jealousy. You have no evidence since your wife has told you directly over and over that she did not cheat. She is obviously lonely to not be in peace in masturbating either that you are leaving her a stranger in her own home. Get a grip!!!