i love you paula.....now having said that at times iwant too reach through the screen and shake you as in wake you up..please take my advice that at times we need too pray hard to get our breakthroughs you paula may need to pray so hard that your droplets of sweat will resemble blood..........im not judging you, i want your desire to come to past.....look the lord told me that there was an area of my life that was hindering our walk,but the lord did not reveal to me what the area was?so i had to look at my life lookwithin be honest with myself take what i believed was the problem lay it at the cross and repent rise up and ask the lord to empower me to be an overcomer in that area of my life.so dont be afraid to ask if thier is anything in your life that the lord needs to deal with before your prayers are answered, be sincere when asking and thenwait upon the lord as in the answer may take weeks/months their may be nothing wrong with your walk with christ but if their is wouldnt you like to know, anyway go back to the beginning sometimes we need to make a sacrifice, we need to spend a lot of time in prayer spend time just with the lord and combine it with fasting,when the human body is weak then the lord is strong pray something like this;OH LORD GIVE ME YOUR HEART YOUR MIND,FILL ME WITH THE POWER OF YOUR SPIRIT IN JESUS NAME pray it repeatedly morning noon and night for 3days pray hard my precious friend in christ,remember the lord helps those who help themselves