when i ask for prayer request please dont judge me because i want my family back. i feel like crap that my prayers are not important and sometimes stupid that i want tim back after what he did to me and the reason the kids are not with us. thank you

Paula i apologize on behalf of my brothers and sisters if we have made you feel that we have judge you.God loves you and want the best for you.The question is do you want the best for you.Love doesn't hurt and anyone who hurts you willingly?The Lord have given us free will to make inform decisions.Are you using the gift he gas given you?First we are accountable to God before we are accountable to someone else.Make Jesus master of you life and let him work on you.But first you have to accept him and be willing to change.The question is.Are you willing to do the work to get Tim and the kids back??Lord help Paula in whatever trouble she may be facing this i ask in Jesus name and may she seek your face in whatever she decide to do.Amen

i love you paula.....now having said that at times iwant too reach through the screen and shake you as in wake you up..please take my advice that at times we need too pray hard to get our breakthroughs you paula may need to pray so hard that your droplets of sweat will resemble blood..........im not judging you, i want your desire to come to past.....look the lord told me that there was an area of my life that was hindering our walk,but the lord did not reveal to me what the area was?so i had to look at my life lookwithin be honest with myself take what i believed was the problem lay it at the cross and repent rise up and ask the lord to empower me to be an overcomer in that area of my life.so dont be afraid to ask if thier is anything in your life that the lord needs to deal with before your prayers are answered, be sincere when asking and thenwait upon the lord as in the answer may take weeks/months their may be nothing wrong with your walk with christ but if their is wouldnt you like to know, anyway go back to the beginning sometimes we need to make a sacrifice, we need to spend a lot of time in prayer spend time just with the lord and combine it with fasting,when the human body is weak then the lord is strong pray something like this;OH LORD GIVE ME YOUR HEART YOUR MIND,FILL ME WITH THE POWER OF YOUR SPIRIT IN JESUS NAME pray it repeatedly morning noon and night for 3days pray hard my precious friend in christ,remember the lord helps those who help themselves

Paula, I hold you up daily from my part of the world. Know I cover you when you are probably asleep. I have to agree with your fellow brothers and sisters above. Get into the word, change YOU (as that is the only person you really have control over) and work WITH God. Paula, break free - stop looking at the negative, count one blessing every single day. For it is in giving that we receive. Look to God FIRST, not Tim or another human and then wait on his word. You are precious to God and he loves you more than you can imagine. Reach out to him at this time ok. AMEN

I am standing in prayer with you and will never judge you. God is working on your behalf. Believe. In Jesus Name. Amen!

Paula, I also have been praying for your for a very longtime, and know our God does hear our prayers and answer them in his timing, but first there are lessons He wants us to learn. Please let go, and let God do the work in your life, and your x's, and children. I know it's not an easy thing to do, but only when you trust God with all your heart and let them really go, will you get them back. For only God can do the work in them not you nor us by our prayers as much as we want to be the ones to bring them back to you. Trust God with all your might and make him the cornerstone of your life, it is then that you'll see miracles come your way. But please stand still and now He is God, and don't interfere in the work He is about to do in their lives and yours. I can tell you this because I was where you are today and everyone that knew me and my family would tell me it was hopeless, not to keep on hanging in there. It was only when I told God to help me let go and let him do the work not only for them, but in me too. To help me stop panicking, to take all my fears and depression away, and help me to accept whatever His will was for me and my family, did things started turning around, after fourteen long years of me trying to win them back. So you can see it didn't happened overnight, but today things can't be better and I give all the Honor and the Glory to my Heavenly Father through Jesus Christ our Savior, Praise Be to God in the Highest! You just have to let go Paula and concentrate on your job, in making yourself well, and in losing the weight you want to lose, and keep praying, that is all we can do in situations like these. I will continue to pray for you as I've been, and as many others have been doing here. But Please don't take any advice given to you as criticism or judging you, for we love you and would make it all right for you if it were in our power to do so. It's not for us do the work in you, and your family, it's God's work. With all my Sisterly love in Christ always praying for you, Tammy
Hang in there Paula and
Dear Lord have your perfect will be done in Paula's life, her X's and children. Bring a reconciliation among them, but first of all have them accept you as their Lord and Savior and make you the cornerstone of their life and marriage. Lord I know you can do it for you did it for me and others that I've known in my life. We know nothing is impossible for you, and that you want only the best for us, but first we have to allow you to do the work in us. let it be so for Paula and her family, I pray this in Jesus name, amen.

(05-24-2011 12:24 PM)Guest Wrote:  Paula, I also have been praying for your for a very longtime, and know our God does hear our prayers and answer them in his timing, but first there are lessons He wants us to learn. Please let go, and let God do the work in your life, and your x's, and children. I know it's not an easy thing to do, but only when you trust God with all your heart and let them really go, will you get them back. For only God can do the work in them not you nor us by our prayers as much as we want to be the ones to bring them back to you. Trust God with all your might and make him the cornerstone of your life, it is then that you'll see miracles come your way. But please stand still and now He is God, and don't interfere in the work He is about to do in their lives and yours. I can tell you this because I was where you are today and everyone that knew me and my family would tell me it was hopeless, not to keep on hanging in there. It was only when I told God to help me let go and let him do the work not only for them, but in me too. To help me stop panicking, to take all my fears and depression away, and help me to accept whatever His will was for me and my family, did things started turning around, after fourteen long years of me trying to win them back. So you can see it didn't happened overnight, but today things can't be better and I give all the Honor and the Glory to my Heavenly Father through Jesus Christ our Savior, Praise Be to God in the Highest! You just have to let go Paula and concentrate on your job, in making yourself well, and in losing the weight you want to lose, and keep praying, that is all we can do in situations like these. I will continue to pray for you as I've been, and as many others have been doing here. But Please don't take any advice given to you as criticism or judging you, for we love you and would make it all right for you if it were in our power to do so. It's not for us do the work in you, and your family, it's God's work. With all my Sisterly love in Christ always praying for you, Tammy
Hang in there Paula and
Dear Lord have your perfect will be done in Paula's life, her X's and children. Bring a reconciliation among them, but first of all have them accept you as their Lord and Savior and make you the cornerstone of their life and marriage. Lord I know you can do it for you did it for me and others that I've known in my life. We know nothing is impossible for you, and that you want only the best for us, but first we have to allow you to do the work in us. let it be so for Paula and her family, I pray this in Jesus name, amen.

Paula remember we are here for you. You at least can get to us by this board which I thank God for it. During my time when I was like you there was nothing like this, and not too many churches where I lived looked kindly to divorce or separated women. So I felt very lonely too, except for a woman I found in my area going through the same thing. She had just started a group in her house for other woman hurting, and in need of fellowship with people that understood them and prayed with them and one another. That was a great blessing not only for me but all the woman that attended it. Many reunifications came about, others were able to let go completely and start a new life with someone else. Some of us still keep in touch, and God is still blessing us after thirty years of this group starting.
Lord help and direct Paula to a support group near her where she can make some good Christian friends that will understand her and pray with her. Guide her steps as she waits on you, take away all her fears and depression. Give her confidence in herself and to keep on. May she become with your help a strong woman that can be self sufficient and won't need the help of her x for anything in her life. Because you Lord supply all her needs and give her the strength to see that nothing is impossible or too hard for her to accomplish with you at her side. I ask this of you in Jesus name, amen.