You have abused your wife Ron to make her sheepish with your overbearing jealousy and mistrust. You have even led this group to pray for you while condemning your wife as a sinner when you are the sinner at heart and in action. You have no proof and evil is influencing you to terrorize your wife because of your own insecurities. Any lack of intimacy in your marriage is as a result of your actions where you have demoralized her as a woman and as your wife. Eventually she will leave you if you continue to act this way. I have no sympathy for you, nor any prayers since you led this group to follow your foolish heart in condemning your wife. Only prayer for you is that you get help and see the truth of yourself in what you have done. Beg your wife for forgiveness and repent of your ways.