Hey lady, I've spent a year and a half waiting on a man. It will destroy you. Tell this guy you respect his feelings and tell him you can't put yourself through this. Then let him know you are going to move on. Now this will either make him think about what he might lose if he let's you go or will help him to focus on the other girl. He needs to know you are a good catch and finding the man God has for you is most important. I will pray for God's will in your life. That's the only true joy you will find. God Bless