After giving her many chances to confess she refuses. She event denied the humiliation of the intimacy she performed in our own house with me sitting there being ignored. I have caught her out skillfully lying to me on another occasion. Yes I have begged God to show me the truth.

BTW...I am a highly trained professional that deals with people in crises. Not all marriages can be saved! It takes both partners to make a total committment. Adultery breaks trust and intimacy etc. God also hates adultery. The only way I will get the truth is from God and this is what I want prayer for...I have given my wife every opportunity to confess