adoring1 Wrote:Father, in your mercy please move on the heart of this young girl to reconsider her position on seeking help. In her current state Mel cannot see anything clearly and she has become totally desensitized to all that is happening around her due to her own pain. Help her to understand that you do not visit illness on our parents or death in families to injure any of us. The dates of birth and death for every soul ever to be born were determined at the foundation of the world and while it is very unfortunate that this is all happening at the same time it is not a punishment of any kind...it just is. Father, please calm Mel's spirit long enough for there to be a breakthrough in her thinking. Help her to seek treatment that will give her relief. Therapy is not something that "works" in the short term. Sometimes it requires longer periods of time for the insights necessary to bring healing to occur. Many years ago, I thought much as she is thinking now and had to go through 3 therapists to find one that was skilled enough and that I trusted enough to help me. 3 years later I emerged from my shell of pain stronger, wiser and capable of dealing with life with my hand in yours. Please in your mercy lead Mel to seek help that her life may become manageable again. Suicide is not of you Father...it is directly of the enemy and is the ultimate weapon that he uses to destroy us. Father in your love for Mel and for her mother...who does not deserve to walk into a room and see her daughter dead, who does not deserve to carry that image with her for all of her days, who is struggling with the needs of her father and her grief from the death of a loved one already... please move that Mel seeks help. Until Mel is healed from this disturbance of the mind, she will not be able to grow as you would have her to and will continue to see things through the filter of her pain...which distorts everything. Right now the only thing of any real importance is for her to get well and for her to know peace that she might be able to make sound decisions. Father please in your mercy help her. In Jesus name...Amen!