I want to thank everyone for all the prayers regarding my situation, I'm sure they are having an effect. My wife continues to be closed to me, and although she has been more affectionate of late, she has also been speaking lies to me in the same breath. She attempts to mislead me in regards to things that I know are not true. I feel strongly that I am to wait until we get to councelling before I should confront her on these things, but I am very conflicted about the whole situation. I really want to believe that she is being genuine in her efforts to be closer to me, however, since she is lying to me during the same conversation, I have many doubts. I am currently leaving this with The Lord. Even if this marriage ends badly, I am safe in His hand. Your continued prayers are greatly appreciated.