My husband is a passiive aggressive man. He is controling and withholds affection as a form of punishment. He will not touch me and has not for years. He will not seek councelling and no words I say can get through to him. We are christians and I am his second wife. I am sorrowful even unto death. I wish that the Lord would take me home so I will not have to suffer any more. I cannot bear the rejection. He is devoid of emotion. My life is that of 2 strangers living together until death seperates us. I pray for your understanding and ask for prayer. This is effecting my health and I am emotionally exhausted. Why can't he just love me in a tangable way. My heart is broken. He will not communicate about anything that envolves my feelings or our marriage. I have tried and tried in vain. That is why I have given up. No one should have to beg to be love.