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| Posted by Guest - 02-13-2012 07:56 AM |
(12-18-2010 06:57 PM)Guest Wrote: My husband is a passiive aggressive man. He is controling and withholds affection as a form of punishment. He will not touch me and has not for years. He will not seek councelling and no words I say can get through to him. We are christians and I am his second wife. I am sorrowful even unto death. I wish that the Lord would take me home so I will not have to suffer any more. I cannot bear the rejection. He is devoid of emotion. My life is that of 2 strangers living together until death seperates us. I pray for your understanding and ask for prayer. This is effecting my health and I am emotionally exhausted. Why can't he just love me in a tangable way. My heart is broken. He will not communicate about anything that envolves my feelings or our marriage. I have tried and tried in vain. That is why I have given up. No one should have to beg to be love. Stop Blaming God and feeling self pity in Jesus' name. Continually I hear people ask why does God allow crime, sickness, natural disasters, etc. These people are Christians and nonbelievers. I deliberate Christians as ignorant to ask these questions because those answers are in the Bible. I deliberate the nonbelievers as ignorant because it’s ludicrous to accuse a God that you don’t believe in. I wish people would stop looking for a genie to appear and do the research themselves. It’s absurd, God doesn’t exist but he’s the cause of everything ‘that doesn’t go our way.’ Why is it not Budda’s fault, or Muhammad’s fault, or Hindu’s fault, or the statues people worship a fault? Why are we humans the source of everything good yet when a murderer comes in your home and takes a life suddenly it’s God’s fault? As if God is a big powerful spirit looking down on us with hate and wants our lives to be miserable. I do believe God is in control of everything but that doesn’t mean everything is God’s fault. Some things we bring upon ourselves and we do have to recognize there is Satan and his demons who are out to destroy all Gods creations. The biggest question is why does God allow bad things to happen to good people? Why does God allow murders happen to victims who didn’t deserve it? But, have anyone asked God why he allowed them to get away with cheating on that test to past the class with a grade they didn’t deserve? No. Now, I’m sure you’re asking me am I really comparing murder to a student cheating in a classroom? Yes, I am because no matter how different the circumstances are, it all fall to the same conclusion. We ask why does God allow bad things happen to good people. But, why do we allow ourselves who supposedly be good people to do bad things? Why do we allow ourselves to judge? Why do we allow ourselves to hurt others because we’re hurt? That's what a murderer is, a person who’s hurt and wants someone else to feel pain because no one likes to feel as if no one knows what they feel. Then there are things that happen that we have no control over no matter how we live such as natural disasters. Therefore, if you want to know why God allowed the tornado to come through your neighborhood and destroy your home or take your loved ones then just ask. God is not a being who you have to sacrifice a certain amount of money to talk to. God is not a being who requires a certain social status to talk to him. God is a being who has ears for everyone. If you want to gain some wisdom about God’s plans for earth and our personal lives then read the Bible. People assume the Bible is nothing more than words to encourage us to live a peaceful and happy life. Albeit that is a part of it but the Bible is much more. The Bible explains in many ways why does bad things happen to good people and it explains God’s justice system on wickedness. The book of Job is the most vivid story of bad things happening to good people. If you have a question you want God to answer directly then pray. You don’t always have to get on your knees to pray. All you have to do is call God’s name, ask your question, and he will answer you. People are too stubborn, they think because they don’t claim themselves as Christians that they shouldn’t pick up a Bible yet they have all these accusations about God. DO YOUR RESEARCH! Its utter ignorance to question God and seek the world to answer it. To seek science and man to answer your questions about God. What knowledge comes from accusing a God you know nothing about? You’re merely being evil as the evil you blame God is allowing! I’m not saying I understand everything that happens under the sun. There are things that happen in this world that I don’t know why such as human trafficking of teen girls, how little kids get beaten because their guardians are bitter of their own lives, why do police abuse their power, why black men fight over petty things, why are some white people secretly racist as if we don’t notice? Probably all these questions will never get answered, and the crimes probably will never change. I believe they will have a different degree if we do something about it but other than that I know it will continue until the end of time. So why dwell on it? I’m not saying because it will never end that we shouldn’t try everyday to stop it. But, are we going to do something about it or just sit back and blame God for it? Natural disasters are not our fault, and yes we can blame God for them because God is in control of all natural disasters. But, should we blame God as to condemn him for our lost? Instead, we should pray to God to help us see through our lost. God brought the calamity to us so don’t you think he can bring us out? Therefore, I don’t think it’ll be a good idea to be mad at God because it will merely make a bad situation worse. Have I ever had a reason to be mad at God? Yes. Where did that anger get me? Nowhere. Every minute we spend being bitter at God is another minute we waste gaining understanding of our circumstances. Humans make promises, and merely half of us keep our promises. God makes promises and has nor never will break his promises. His word is true, and his word is just. Whether his words speak of joy or sadness, his words are righteous. If God says a disaster is coming then should we worry? If God says, he will protect us then should there be a reason for us to doubt? If God says, we will die shouldn’t we have peace that we will have eternal life and confidence that God is taking us because our will on earth is finished. If God says he will restore sevenfold what the tornado, earthquake, or hurricane takes away from us then shouldn’t we have confidence to not hold on to our belongings because we know what is to come is greater than what we already have. Albeit, God never promised that our life will be perfect. He never promised that we will understand everything that happens under the sun. As a person may never understand why God took their child away but what will we prosper by being bitter to God? Maybe some circumstances are not meant to be understood, but we can have peace in all our circumstances. We can pray to God to heal our pain and to open our hearts for forgiveness. |
| Posted by Chris8 - 02-13-2012 04:20 AM |
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Dear Lord,please have mercy on this woman. In the Name of the Lord,right now I command to all the power of darkness and the curses to leave this woman! Now! I pray that Your will to be done in her life. You are the King of kings and Your Name is Wonderful. Thank You my Lord 
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| Posted by adoring1 - 12-21-2010 07:25 PM |
| Father, please have mercy on this woman and dlivr her from this situation in whatever manner you feel best. father help her to heal and help thsi husband to realize just how much hurt he is causing to this wife and help him to amend his life. In Jesus name...Amen! |
| Posted by Guest - 12-20-2010 11:58 PM |
| Dear Heavenly Father please hold strong this womans broken heart. Let her remember that she is Your child and is loved, Please Lord give her a clear mind and direction. I ask for resolution according to Thy will Lord. In Jesus name I pray Amen |
| Posted by shilo - 12-20-2010 10:12 PM |
| Father God, I pray that you open this lady's husbands heart and eyes to what he is doing to her and himself. Lord as she waits for you to act on her behalf bring her comfort and strength. In Jesus holy name I pray amen. |
| Posted by Guest - 12-20-2010 10:03 PM |
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If your husband is a Christian then he must know that what he is doing is a sin, and he is going against what the bible says. 1 Corinthians 7:2-3 – “But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.†I believe that in some religions this is cause for annulment or divorce, so you don't have to live with a man that doesn't honor you biblically as his wife anymore. Why don't you ask your priest or minister what you can do about your situation according to the word of God.. Lord enlighten this woman as to what she should do in her situation and give her the strength, and comfort she needs. Also the wisdom to understand what your word says concerning her position as a wife in situations like this. Touch her husband's heart and let him see he is not being the husband you intended him to be to his wife. Heal whatever his problem may be, and help him to be a real husband to this woman not just by name. I pray this in Jesus name, amen. |
| Posted by stevendanielsen - 12-20-2010 06:33 PM |
| Dear Havenly Father The Kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven forgive us are sin as we for give are debtor and lead us not into temptiation but deliver us from evil Please answer this person prayer acord to your will and bless there life Lord and we give you all the honor,glory, and priase to whom all power belong. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN |
| Posted by tracyrenae - 12-20-2010 01:02 AM |
| Jesus, i pray that you would deal with this man and help him to love his wife the way that you want him to...i pray that as she waits for you to answer her prayer, that she would feel your love and that your holy spirit would give her peace as she is waiting upon the Lord..I know that you are able to answer this prayer and I pray that you would give her hope and allow her to give everything to you so that you may heal her life and give her joy.. in Jesus name i pray, amen. |
| Posted by tishlea - 12-19-2010 05:34 AM |
| Precious Jesus, open the eyes of this husband. Let him see that he needs You in his life. Lord, open his eyes to the love that his wife has for him. Lord, touch this man's heart. Lord, fill it with joy unspeakable. Lord, restore the love of this marriage. Lord, send comfort and peace to this wife. Lord, give her strength to continue to hold tight to You. Bind satan from their lives. In this I ask in Your name,Jesus.Amen. |
| Posted by sharon19 - 12-18-2010 11:43 PM |
| Father!!! give peace to this sister in Jesus name amen.. |
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