jenjen...in this instance listen to your mind and summon the discipline necessary to walk away and focus on God and your own healing for now. You CANNOT fix the relationship because there are things broken in this man's heart that only he and God can repair. Love him yes...but as God does in an Agape manner without hope for anything with or from him. While in a state of addiction he cannot love you or anyone...not without deliverance from this affliction and you cannot give him that. Staying any longer will only increase your co-dependence and is very dangerous for you emotionally, financially and yes even physically. Pray for his deliverance and for his salvation...but use the wisdom God put into your mind and walk away and tend to your own garden. If you do not and as you suggest...lose everything my sweet girl...it will not be because of this man...it will be because you chose to walk in opposition to God's desire for you. Please consider this and use discernment in your situation for your sake. Love in Christ...