Dear responder, I have a very good income and contribute to this family. I am more than capable of financianally providing for myself and have brought much income to this family. I was seeking prayer not condementaion. I am a christian and so is my husband, to suggest divorce is not bibical. God hates divorce. So if you return to this request for prayer please do so. Pee or get off the pot. Yes you are the devils advocate and I do forgive you because you need to walk a mile in my shoes before judging me.