I have been Married for 9 years and have 4 children been through many ups and downs. I have had a troubled childhood which eventually came into my current marriage alot of dishonesty from my behalf. We both separated for 5 months due to my partners infidelity when we were together. When separated i also committed infidelity due to my bitter broken heart and foolish pride. Cut a long story short Eventually my wife found out after a neighbour told her, so i had to confess the situation. Now my wife wants a divorce and has filed for separation under the same roof... During this time we were far away from God...drinking alcahol getting drunk and ruining our lives. Enough was enough i decided to Give my life to Jesus as i had hit rock bottom. My wife also Came back to GOd we go to the same church i have been praying so hard but feel so helpless as i feel like a immature christian. My wife still wants no more marriage nor councelling or reconcilliation as 2 people gave there testimonies regarding there marriages and told my wife that they left there husbanes for various reasons and how God changed there lives so my Wife believes that there testimonies were a sign from God that this marriage is over. I love my wife so dearly i would take back everything in a flash if it was possible. I feel helpless, lost, confused and just broken and still trying to maintain a peace with God and lots of prayers. My wife uses the verse of divorce is acceptable due to infadelity everytime so i feel helpless as to make things even seem that there might be hope in restoration. Please Pray for us as I lover her so dearly and i Believe God brought us together in his name. Any Godly advise would be greatly appreciated as i just feel lost just cant stop crying everyday. My apologies for the long post. My Wife wants a Divorce 26 November 2010 one month before our 10 year anniversary.