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| Posted by Guest - 06-13-2016 05:54 AM |
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The marriage is dead. Scott also said to me God is dead. He sent me text today saying that. May god have mercy on his dead soul that feeds on lies, hate, anger and threats. I pray he takes care of my kids. My son was in hospital, scott never got his asthma preventer medication. That same day im at hospital with my sons, he texts me and threatens to nail my ass in court. In 2014 my son nearly died from asthma. Scott trained as a medic, couldnt do cpr. My baby sister took over cpr. My son in cardiac arrest, said he prayed before he lost consciouness. I had to text scott many times to get his sons warm clothes. The child wellbeing unit was called by someone helping my daughter because he never got her meds. I rang police for welfare check cos again he never got medication. Please pray for my kids!! I dont want advice. I need gods hand of protection over my children!!!! Devine intervention. Scott needs to grow up. Mackelmore and sheeran song- growing up |
| Posted by Guest - 02-18-2016 11:02 AM |
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Scott the word of God tells us, there are consequences to our sins, and that we reap what we saw. God does forgive us, but but we have to learn to forgive our self and those that have hurt us too. You have to gain your wife's trust, and you hers, and the one that can help you both to trust each other, is to first trust God and love Him above anything else in your lives. Read the Lord's prayer, see how it tell us "forgive us our sins as we forgive those who have sin against us." If you want God to forgive you and answer your prayers, so must you forgive others first, such as your wife. Lord I pray you will bring forgiveness to this couple and with each other, and for themselves too. May they really turn their life and marriage completely to you and allow you to guide their steps from now on. I know you can heal marriages for you have done it with mine, but we have to be honest with each other, and repent from our sins against you and against each other, that means to never do what you had done in the past ever again. We know that only then can you can start working in their life's and marriage. Teach them Lord to be understanding and kind to each other, and renew a better love for each other than they ever had. Teach them to trust you and each other from now on. Protect those kids in this marriage, may all that their parents are going through will not affect their tender life's in the future. I pray this in Jesus' precious name amen. |
| Posted by Guest - 02-18-2016 10:07 AM |
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There are always two sides to a story. A key point scottg2219 has said is, he has been dishonest. Are you being honest? God is truth. I pray you speak truth. The lies that Scott has told varied. It would be about his first ex wife, being unable to conceive children, his work, his childhood, his life and everything else became hard to believe, when constantly lied to. I left Scott and went to a womens refuge with our children for the 5 months, not because of my infidelity, but because of the domestic violence history that was repeating again and his continued alcoholism, which later led to other drugs which I found in the car. I chose to leave him, at that time as he would not move out, because his name was on the lease. The law has changed now with Domestic Violence, and the perpetrator has to move out. Scott has committed infidelity throughout our relationship, which he will never readily admit, I find out from neighbours, people he has been gloating to about his 'conquests', or evidence. This included his ex-girlfriend, as I found love letters he had been writing to her, he has also confessed to being a compulsive liar, also he has in the past has sexual relationships with men. So I found it difficult to trust him not just with women, but also men. He had also joined a band and once on tour I called him and he must of bumped his phone because I heard audible sounds of moaning and groaning. I went to a refuge again, last year. because the pattern of behaviour continued, yet again. This time he committed adultery with my sister. He plied her with alcohol and took advantage of the situation. This happened in January. I went to a women's refuge in February because of psychological abuse and he ultimately told me to leave. I have the text messages still. He started a new relationship in March with a totally different woman. A woman I have never met, but he has known her for about 10 years. They use to work together, and kept in contact. And this is the situation. I can not remove this post. But found it because Scott had been using my email account to get illegal downloads from a bootlegs site and had this same username scottg2219. I was trying to find out if he is using my details for other illegal purposes. So that I end up getting in trouble with the law, because of him. Also, Scott has recently used the system against me, by lying in court about what happened between myself and him. This gave me a conviction and affects my ability to work in community services, which I started studying in 2011. Scott told the court I attacked him first and he received only scratch marks and a broken necklace. He lied. He hit me heavily in the chest and fractured my rib, I fell heavily and hurt my shoulder in the process and hit my head heavily on the wooden floor. I was also wearing a moon boot from a sprained ankle. I do not recall much after that, due to hitting my head. I only remember falling, and later the police arriving. Recently he wanted to press charges against our eldest daughter and her partner, because of an altercation between him and her partner. Similar to my circumstances, he lied about what happened and was the aggressor in the situation. Saying he had his new girlfriend as a witness to what happened. He pushed our daughters partner first, in their home and then her partner reacted in self defense. I have the texts from our eldest daughter stating what happened that night, and will be using it in court to have my conviction overturned. There are quite a few 'prayer requests' scott has posted online about my "immoral ways", he has much difficulty in speaking truth. I was advised by a specialist, that Scott has a narcissistic personality. He will blame me, play the victim, manipulate, when he treated me very badly, he would say he was going to commit suicide. For 15 years I endured much, and it affected my ability to trust, confidence, self worth, dignity, mental health, and so much more that I am receiving counsel to try and be free from past hurts. I have left him permanently, I have set up a new home, we share care of our dependent children and I am relieved and grateful I am no longer in that type of relationship. I ask you pray he speaks truth, heap burning coals on his head to confess the truth and set me free from his lies. Also I pray for our children and finding a church home for us to attend, where they can thrive, make good local connections and see the hope that I know. I appreciate your time. |
| Posted by Guest - 10-19-2010 09:57 PM |
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Father God I pray for Scott and his wife. Please Lord you are smarter than all of us you're the only one who can fix this one. Please help them dear God. Amen |
| Posted by stevendanielsen - 10-18-2010 09:56 PM |
| Dear Havenly Father The Kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven forgive us are sin as we for give are debtor and lead us not into temptiation but deliver us from evil Please answer this person prayer acord to your will and bless there life Lord and we give you all the priase honor and glory to whom all power belong. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN |
| Posted by guest - 10-18-2010 09:18 PM |
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I am currently in the same situation with my husband. He has left our home and moved in with another woman. Here are some scriptures to uplift you. Don't lose Faith. Speak to your mountain and make it move! Proverbs 16:9 Mark 9:9 Psalms 147:3 Proverbs 21:30 Exodus 14:14 Ephesians 6:11 Luke 18:7-8 Mark 11:22-24 Hope this helps! I will be praying for you. God bless. |
| Posted by adoring1 - 10-18-2010 09:04 PM |
| Father, touch these two people with your love. Draw them close to you that you might minister to their minds, hearts and spirits. Marriage is not a disposable commodity...it is designed as a life long commitment. What is that makes a wife feel that they may sin and be forgiven but when a husband commits the same sin...he should be condemned? Please in your mercy grow both this your son and your daughter in your word. Let this husband understand who he is in Christ Jesus and who he is as the Spiritual head of a woman and a home. Let him pray over his wife daily as taught in Ephesians 5. Let him also gently ask her to allow him to pray with her daily that she may be protected from the enemy and the demonic spirit of anger and unforgiveness broken in her soul. Father, please also teach this wife to submit to her husband as the church is to submit the Christ. Father...help each of these to learn who they are that they may reason with one another. End this strife and help this marriage to stand. In Jesus name...Amen! |
| Posted by Chuck - 10-18-2010 07:32 PM |
Chuck Wrote:Scott, |
| Posted by Chuck - 10-18-2010 07:08 PM |
scottg2219 Wrote:I have been Married for 9 years and have 4 children been through many ups and downs. I have had a troubled childhood which eventually came into my current marriage alot of dishonesty from my behalf. We both separated for 5 months due to my partners infidelity when we were together. When separated i also committed infidelity due to my bitter broken heart and foolish pride. Cut a long story short Eventually my wife found out after a neighbour told her, so i had to confess the situation. Now my wife wants a divorce and has filed for separation under the same roof... During this time we were far away from God...drinking alcahol getting drunk and ruining our lives. Enough was enough i decided to Give my life to Jesus as i had hit rock bottom. My wife also Came back to GOd we go to the same church i have been praying so hard but feel so helpless as i feel like a immature christian. My wife still wants no more marriage nor councelling or reconcilliation as 2 people gave there testimonies regarding there marriages and told my wife that they left there husbanes for various reasons and how God changed there lives so my Wife believes that there testimonies were a sign from God that this marriage is over. I love my wife so dearly i would take back everything in a flash if it was possible. I feel helpless, lost, confused and just broken and still trying to maintain a peace with God and lots of prayers. My wife uses the verse of divorce is acceptable due to infadelity everytime so i feel helpless as to make things even seem that there might be hope in restoration. Please Pray for us as I lover her so dearly and i Believe God brought us together in his name. Any Godly advise would be greatly appreciated as i just feel lost just cant stop crying everyday. My apologies for the long post. My Wife wants a Divorce 26 November 2010 one month before our 10 year anniversary. |
| Posted by scottg2219 - 10-18-2010 07:03 PM |
| I have been Married for 9 years and have 4 children been through many ups and downs. I have had a troubled childhood which eventually came into my current marriage alot of dishonesty from my behalf. We both separated for 5 months due to my partners infidelity when we were together. When separated i also committed infidelity due to my bitter broken heart and foolish pride. Cut a long story short Eventually my wife found out after a neighbour told her, so i had to confess the situation. Now my wife wants a divorce and has filed for separation under the same roof... During this time we were far away from God...drinking alcahol getting drunk and ruining our lives. Enough was enough i decided to Give my life to Jesus as i had hit rock bottom. My wife also Came back to GOd we go to the same church i have been praying so hard but feel so helpless as i feel like a immature christian. My wife still wants no more marriage nor councelling or reconcilliation as 2 people gave there testimonies regarding there marriages and told my wife that they left there husbanes for various reasons and how God changed there lives so my Wife believes that there testimonies were a sign from God that this marriage is over. I love my wife so dearly i would take back everything in a flash if it was possible. I feel helpless, lost, confused and just broken and still trying to maintain a peace with God and lots of prayers. My wife uses the verse of divorce is acceptable due to infadelity everytime so i feel helpless as to make things even seem that there might be hope in restoration. Please Pray for us as I lover her so dearly and i Believe God brought us together in his name. Any Godly advise would be greatly appreciated as i just feel lost just cant stop crying everyday. My apologies for the long post. My Wife wants a Divorce 26 November 2010 one month before our 10 year anniversary. |