Lord I know that men do not like or respect a woman that is weak and throw's herself at him. Help this wife to demonstrate her independance and strength. I believe that if she shows that she can and will do it with or without him than maybe he will realize that he can no longer keep her as a victim. Men who leave their wives are not just unhappy. They are struggling and have inner issues that are painful. I pray that this woman will not take any blame for her husbands decisions. Let her work hard on making a life for herself and if he wishes to come back then he will have to win her heart back as well. Help make things right between them Lord and call this mans heart back to his family instead of his selfish desires. Help this woman to stand firm and hold fast. keep her from begging. Love is a gift not something we grovel for. She is worth loving and if he cannot see that, then he is not worth it, and it won't be possible for reconcillation withot the intervention of Jesus Christ. I invite you Lord to intervene and save this family from the hurt of divorce and separation. In Jesus name I pray.