I also believe that someone like this can be dangerous & to our souls for they are not to be pleased, it can crush the spirit of a woman to go through this.
I believe my ex husband is of such a mindset that if he thought he could still hurt me he would. He is gone. He never wanted to stick by my side, I am glad he has left. Now it is between him & God.
A woman should not have to beg her husband to stay nor spend countless hours primping in front of a mirror to please him.
If she desire this fine, it is good.
But to expect someone to do this, or think that if they do, that this will keep a man of this nature (that is never happy), it is wrong.
Coming out of a very abusive marriage, I am sensitive to this type of thing. It has taught me a lot about some humans that I did not know & frankly did not want to know. I loved this man, but you cannot love nor remain in a love where the person does not want to stay & is always displeased.
To spend time in front of the mirror thinking that it will change things.. I guess it smacks at me, because it is almost always about the one that turns away from the marriage.
As I say, if my ex husband could hurt me further I believe he would.
I am all for marriage, but I am also of the understanding there are some that are not, that is why I am no longer married.
(I was not his first wife & I am not going to be his last either, he is always of want for something else)

Guest Wrote:& I had a husband that no what I could not pleased & he continually lust other woman, he was unfaithful, angry, never happy.
He was a very angry man. He goes from one marriage to the next, & I tried to make myself more beautiful & put nice food on the table & everything possible, but nothing worked.
He always wanting someone or something else.
Some people are not to be pleased, not by God not by anyone.
This is their nature. I felt as if it is very personal to me, what she is going through.
I was abused severely.
I have since been reassured that I am attractive & kind & as I was told before my marriage, I have male & female friends that appreciate me for who I am. I don't have to jump over & in & out hoops to feel beautiful inside & out.
I feel in defense of this woman, that she is suffering as she is, I have been there. & in this situation, it makes no difference what a woman does, when there is abuse & the spouse is determined to find someone they will. I am not bitter, but I am wiser because of it.
I will continue to stand in the defense of a situation as this again.

God Bless.

Guest Wrote:If you noticed I asked God to give her wisdom on how to be attracting to her husband once again. Not Only From Within, but If she has neglected her appearance, like some women do after marriage. I was not saying she had neglected herself when I don't even know her. I don't know who you are, but I've seen you put down other prayers here on this board before. I do know that sometimes some woman forgets that their husbands are surrounded all day long with very attractive woman at work, so in a way we have to compete with them. I too had a husband that left me with three young children. I too love God with all my heart and prayed for my husband to be safe, and today he is a Christian, Praise God! I never either said of her being overweight so please stop changing my worlds and judging me. Maybe God intended this if not her, for another woman who may need to hear this to read it, and get the message. Of course beauty starts from within, and God comes first in our lives. But we can also make ourselves look better, take for instant if your parents give you house as a gift, and you just keep the inside beautiful, but neglect the outside, what will others think when they see it rundown? It is the same with our bodies which are the temples of God. And finally yes I agree we have to pray for our husband's for God to convict them. I too had no money or much to wear, but it costs nothing to keep your hear neat, take a shower every day, keep what little clothing you have clean, wear a little make up, and keep the kids and house clean and neat. Also always have a warm dinner waiting for your husband when he gets home from work,. What's wrong with that? For today there so many that don't even know how to cook a dinner for their husbands. He who have ears hear, and not be offended for this is not a bad massage for us to hear. If you noticed I asked God to give her wisdom on how to be attracting to her husband once again. Not Only From Within, but If she has neglected her appearance, like some women do after marriage. I was not saying she had neglected herself when I don't even know her. I don't know who you are, but I've seen you put down other prayers here on this board before. I do know that sometimes some woman forgets that their husbands are surrounded all day long with very attractive woman at work, so in a way we have to compete with them. I too had a husband that left me with three young children. I too love God with all my heart and prayed for my husband to be safe, and today he is a Christian, Praise God! I never either said of her being overweight so please stop changing my worlds and judging me. Maybe God intended this if not her, for another woman who may need to hear this to read it, and get the message. Of course beauty starts from within, and God comes first in our lives. But we can also make ourselves look better, take for instant if your parents give you house as a gift, and you just keep the inside beautiful, but neglect the outside, what will others think when they see it rundown? It is the same with our bodies which are the temples of God. And finally yes I agree we have to pray for our husband's for God to convict them. I too had no money or much to wear, but it costs nothing to keep your hear neat, take a shower every day, keep what little clothing you have clean, wear a little make up, and keep the kids and house clean and neat. Also always have a warm dinner waiting for your husband when he gets home from work,. What's wrong with that? For today there so many that don't even know how to cook a dinner for their husbands. He who have ears hear, and not be offended for this is not a bad massage for us to hear, Ms. Holier than Holier!