I never put you down, I asked that you not ask her to worry about appearance, as this is not about appearance, & if I comment on a prayer (as you are!), I comment on the prayer not the person, as you are commenting on me as a person (holier than holier).
If one is afraid to speak HIS TRUTH, then they are lukewarm.
THAT is why I speak up.
I am sorry that you are angry as it appears you are very.
I do not know you & you do not know me, & I post as guest so how would you know who is posting?
I do think it is not good advice mam, to post to a prayer to a woman that is going thru the loss of her husband to take care of her outward beauty, this was the jist of your post & I was feeling as I needed to defend that this should not be of concentration in regards.
You seem very concerned about outward appearance & it also is apparent by the bulk of your post to me, which is very crude.
I am not here to fight with anyone, I am here to pray, but if I come here & only post without speaking HIS TRUTH, then it would be best I am not here @ all, & I am know that would please you.
Also, there are some that are not afraid what they say, for GOD.
I would much rather this woman know empathy than to begin to think she has to be worried about how she appears in the mirror (as your post is stating) & that was my concern. I did not put you down, I was commenting that I don't believe under the circumstances it should be her concern.
You seem unbelievably angry.
I am not sure why.
God Bless you.
I will not stoop to calling anyone holier than holy, I feel that is completely uncalled for & very un Christian & frankly,
very unlady like.
we are here for Christ/ not to bash.
I merely commented my concern for her worrying about her looks right now or keeping her house tidy, my gosh her husband has left & she has a baby.
Lord, please grant peace amongst us.

Guest Wrote:If you noticed I asked God to give her wisdom on how to be attracting to her husband once again. Not Only From Within, but If she has neglected her appearance, like some women do after marriage. I was not saying she had neglected herself when I don't even know her. I don't know who you are, but I've seen you put down other prayers here on this board before. I do know that sometimes some woman forgets that their husbands are surrounded all day long with very attractive woman at work, so in a way we have to compete with them. I too had a husband that left me with three young children. I too love God with all my heart and prayed for my husband to be safe, and today he is a Christian, Praise God! I never either said of her being overweight so please stop changing my worlds and judging me. Maybe God intended this if not her, for another woman who may need to hear this to read it, and get the message. Of course beauty starts from within, and God comes first in our lives. But we can also make ourselves look better, take for instant if your parents give you house as a gift, and you just keep the inside beautiful, but neglect the outside, what will others think when they see it rundown? It is the same with our bodies which are the temples of God. And finally yes I agree we have to pray for our husband's for God to convict them. I too had no money or much to wear, but it costs nothing to keep your hear neat, take a shower every day, keep what little clothing you have clean, wear a little make up, and keep the kids and house clean and neat. Also always have a warm dinner waiting for your husband when he gets home from work,. What's wrong with that? For today there so many that don't even know how to cook a dinner for their husbands. He who have ears hear, and not be offended for this is not a bad massage for us to hear. If you noticed I asked God to give her wisdom on how to be attracting to her husband once again. Not Only From Within, but If she has neglected her appearance, like some women do after marriage. I was not saying she had neglected herself when I don't even know her. I don't know who you are, but I've seen you put down other prayers here on this board before. I do know that sometimes some woman forgets that their husbands are surrounded all day long with very attractive woman at work, so in a way we have to compete with them. I too had a husband that left me with three young children. I too love God with all my heart and prayed for my husband to be safe, and today he is a Christian, Praise God! I never either said of her being overweight so please stop changing my worlds and judging me. Maybe God intended this if not her, for another woman who may need to hear this to read it, and get the message. Of course beauty starts from within, and God comes first in our lives. But we can also make ourselves look better, take for instant if your parents give you house as a gift, and you just keep the inside beautiful, but neglect the outside, what will others think when they see it rundown? It is the same with our bodies which are the temples of God. And finally yes I agree we have to pray for our husband's for God to convict them. I too had no money or much to wear, but it costs nothing to keep your hear neat, take a shower every day, keep what little clothing you have clean, wear a little make up, and keep the kids and house clean and neat. Also always have a warm dinner waiting for your husband when he gets home from work,. What's wrong with that? For today there so many that don't even know how to cook a dinner for their husbands. He who have ears hear, and not be offended for this is not a bad massage for us to hear, Ms. Holier than Holier!