Father...help Robert to understand that every baby born i innocent and should have a Father...their Father. Much of the confusion in the world is because so many people grow up without the love of stable caring parents who teach them the ways of God and right from wrong. Robert...stand by this woman...yes if both of you are divorced or single you can marry and have children with her. Forgive yourself...God already has. Be there for this child and do not let pride get in your way of letting your heart be known to this woman...if she is free. If she is not yet free...let her know your intent to be there for your child. I pray that this woman will also confess her sin...seek forgiveness...and welcome your being a father to your yet unborn baby. Be strong in the Lord Robert...we will be praying for you! In Jesus name...Amen!