would ask questions, of his family, his friends (if he has parents, speak to them), to find out how he is in relationships.
was he married before? is he free to marry again biblically ?
questions Christians ask.

Guest Wrote:It seems that my heart and my life and the future of a marriage can only be helped by prayer and by what I KNOW to be true and this site states: Miracles happen every day! I pray that a miracle take place to heal and restore and allow this troubled relationship to find a bridge over hurt and lies and anger and infidelity to see through to the other side, which would be a healthy and full marriage. The man that I was/am to marry, who is also a Christian; although, his actions lately are troublesome in that regard, has fallen into a pattern in life for the past few months and perhaps, in reality, even longer, in which he reacts to difficulty and trials in our relationship and in life through anger, frustration, harsh language, impatience, poor choices (e.g. becoming involved with another woman), dishonesty, haphazard behavior, and just a general selfishness that is hurtful to me, him, and to our relationship. I know how easy it is to tell someone that is not YET married, to simply pray for God's will, and of course, this is true of all of life and prayer really. However, I ask for prayer for restoration, renewal, and preservation of this relationship, just as I would a marriage; otherwise, how would ANYONE ever make it to a point of marriage and future and commitment if everyone just bailed out when their intended seems to be really experiencing trouble and pain and making poor choices. I commited myself to him and him to me long before we planned marriage, so it seems wrong and very un-Christian to walk out when times are hard. If this had happened two months or two years after a marriage, would the prayers be all right then? My prayer request is that this relationship and our lives matter in a way that prayers for healing, restoration, and renewal can take place. I ask for prayer over blocking this relationship with another woman from progressing further. I ask that God's will be done, of course, and I ask that prayer for this relationship, valuable before AND after marriage, be preserved and strengthened. Thank you for your prayers.