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| Posted by Chris8 - 08-26-2012 11:04 PM |
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Dear Lord,please have mercy on this guest. In the Name of the Lord,right now I command to all the power of darkness and the curses to leave this guest! Now! I pray that Your will to be done in their life. You are the King of kings and Your Name is Wonderful. Thank You my Lord |
| Posted by Guest - 08-17-2010 04:12 PM |
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would ask questions, of his family, his friends (if he has parents, speak to them), to find out how he is in relationships. was he married before? is he free to marry again biblically ? questions Christians ask. Guest Wrote:It seems that my heart and my life and the future of a marriage can only be helped by prayer and by what I KNOW to be true and this site states: Miracles happen every day! I pray that a miracle take place to heal and restore and allow this troubled relationship to find a bridge over hurt and lies and anger and infidelity to see through to the other side, which would be a healthy and full marriage. The man that I was/am to marry, who is also a Christian; although, his actions lately are troublesome in that regard, has fallen into a pattern in life for the past few months and perhaps, in reality, even longer, in which he reacts to difficulty and trials in our relationship and in life through anger, frustration, harsh language, impatience, poor choices (e.g. becoming involved with another woman), dishonesty, haphazard behavior, and just a general selfishness that is hurtful to me, him, and to our relationship. I know how easy it is to tell someone that is not YET married, to simply pray for God's will, and of course, this is true of all of life and prayer really. However, I ask for prayer for restoration, renewal, and preservation of this relationship, just as I would a marriage; otherwise, how would ANYONE ever make it to a point of marriage and future and commitment if everyone just bailed out when their intended seems to be really experiencing trouble and pain and making poor choices. I commited myself to him and him to me long before we planned marriage, so it seems wrong and very un-Christian to walk out when times are hard. If this had happened two months or two years after a marriage, would the prayers be all right then? My prayer request is that this relationship and our lives matter in a way that prayers for healing, restoration, and renewal can take place. I ask for prayer over blocking this relationship with another woman from progressing further. I ask that God's will be done, of course, and I ask that prayer for this relationship, valuable before AND after marriage, be preserved and strengthened. Thank you for your prayers. |
| Posted by Guest - 08-17-2010 03:45 PM |
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Why would you want to marry someone who is already cheating on you & treating you poorly. Have you background checked this person? God Open her eyes, we ask this in JESUS. Your Will Be Done, God. Guest Wrote:It seems that my heart and my life and the future of a marriage can only be helped by prayer and by what I KNOW to be true and this site states: Miracles happen every day! I pray that a miracle take place to heal and restore and allow this troubled relationship to find a bridge over hurt and lies and anger and infidelity to see through to the other side, which would be a healthy and full marriage. The man that I was/am to marry, who is also a Christian; although, his actions lately are troublesome in that regard, has fallen into a pattern in life for the past few months and perhaps, in reality, even longer, in which he reacts to difficulty and trials in our relationship and in life through anger, frustration, harsh language, impatience, poor choices (e.g. becoming involved with another woman), dishonesty, haphazard behavior, and just a general selfishness that is hurtful to me, him, and to our relationship. I know how easy it is to tell someone that is not YET married, to simply pray for God's will, and of course, this is true of all of life and prayer really. However, I ask for prayer for restoration, renewal, and preservation of this relationship, just as I would a marriage; otherwise, how would ANYONE ever make it to a point of marriage and future and commitment if everyone just bailed out when their intended seems to be really experiencing trouble and pain and making poor choices. I commited myself to him and him to me long before we planned marriage, so it seems wrong and very un-Christian to walk out when times are hard. If this had happened two months or two years after a marriage, would the prayers be all right then? My prayer request is that this relationship and our lives matter in a way that prayers for healing, restoration, and renewal can take place. I ask for prayer over blocking this relationship with another woman from progressing further. I ask that God's will be done, of course, and I ask that prayer for this relationship, valuable before AND after marriage, be preserved and strengthened. Thank you for your prayers. |
| Posted by heal_through_prayer - 08-17-2010 03:07 PM |
Lord, I am in agreement. Restore this marriage to better than it was before. 
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| Posted by adoring1 - 08-17-2010 02:08 PM |
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Father, Thank you for the realization given this morning about how we pray about our troubled marriages. How I wish I had understood this some years ago when I was praying for my own. Forgive me for praying so selfishly then about what I wanted my ex-husband to do while he was caught up in adultery because of my own broken heart, my EROS love for him and my own pain and desires...that I missed the true mark. Perhaps the growth you have provided over these last 8 years can help others? I pray that it will...and I pray that earnest prayers, from many prayer warriors to reclaim those that have strayed from God will bring movement in many hearts... some of stone and some that are broken... and repair to many homes on the verge of collapse. Speak life into these marriages. Turn hearts away from fraudulent partners and back to those to whom vows of fidelity were made. Give this husband or wife a rock solid understanding of what he/she is dealing with. This is not a battle with people who influence, other women or other men; it is one against spiritual wickedness among powers and principalities in high places...there is oppression operating against this wife or husband from these powers and principalities to turn their free will against God. They may not recognize it, but as I pray, this is what I am led to say. For the husband or wife of one who has strayed, I pray that he/she understands that there can be no breakthrough until this spouse is right with God. It is not about them loving in an EROS way this spouse they have left behind or the person with whom they are currently involved. It is not about them returning to this marriage or staying in an unholy relationship...rather it is about their returning to a relationship with Christ. Unless and until they recognize that they are in opposition to the Lord...His will and His ways...there will be no change in the current outcome and in fact it may become worse. This fallen spouse believes that their actions are right...okay...in their sight. They believe it as strongly as the one who has been left behind and wants reconciliation believes. He/she has been convinced by this evil oppression that what he/she is doing is somehow justified. As long as this husband/wife who has been left continues the quest, even in prayer for EROS love as their focus...there will be no change in the behavior of the other. By definition EROS love is that which is fueled by selfish desire...we want those we love to love us back, to share intimacy with us and us only...and this is both natural and human and ultimately what God intends in the marriage relationship...but the need within the one that has strayed that will return HIM or HER to righteousness is for AGAPE love to return...loving themselves as God loves them, loving their spouses as God loves them also...continuance of marriage is NOT a condition for AGAPE love...nothing is...it is unconditional. When we pray in this circumstance...we can and should pray for the return of this straying partner to their marriage...but first things first, as our God does things decently and in order. Let us pray for a return of the straying spouse to God...to His principles, to reverence for Him. When we revere God we cannot go against his ways. The heart of stone that currently exists in the breast of the one who is unfaithful is because their conscience has been seared...and continuance of this is exactly what the enemy wants. Let us bombard heaven with prayers to bring the unfaithful ones back to Jesus...let us ask for them to see themselves through the eyes of Jesus...let us ask that they see how HIS spirit is grieved because of their actions, not our own grief...let us ask for them to see that they are throwing His love, His sacrifice out the window due to their own quest for EROs which can and will bring chaos and destruction into their lives and those in their families... as it already has. These unfaithful husbands and wives are beyond the reach of what their spouses want right now...they no longer care about it...they are deeply engaged in her their own selfish quests to have what THEY want. But they are not beyond the reach of God. Let us pray with all our might that those who have broken their vows fall in love with Jesus again! If they do...if they get back into God's order...the order of the decency of God...their free will can be directed again by the Lord of Hosts...and their return to their marriages, where they belong can again become possible. This I believe...and it is this I pray. In Jesus name...Amen! |
| Posted by Guest - 08-17-2010 01:20 PM |
| It seems that my heart and my life and the future of a marriage can only be helped by prayer and by what I KNOW to be true and this site states: Miracles happen every day! I pray that a miracle take place to heal and restore and allow this troubled relationship to find a bridge over hurt and lies and anger and infidelity to see through to the other side, which would be a healthy and full marriage. The man that I was/am to marry, who is also a Christian; although, his actions lately are troublesome in that regard, has fallen into a pattern in life for the past few months and perhaps, in reality, even longer, in which he reacts to difficulty and trials in our relationship and in life through anger, frustration, harsh language, impatience, poor choices (e.g. becoming involved with another woman), dishonesty, haphazard behavior, and just a general selfishness that is hurtful to me, him, and to our relationship. I know how easy it is to tell someone that is not YET married, to simply pray for God's will, and of course, this is true of all of life and prayer really. However, I ask for prayer for restoration, renewal, and preservation of this relationship, just as I would a marriage; otherwise, how would ANYONE ever make it to a point of marriage and future and commitment if everyone just bailed out when their intended seems to be really experiencing trouble and pain and making poor choices. I commited myself to him and him to me long before we planned marriage, so it seems wrong and very un-Christian to walk out when times are hard. If this had happened two months or two years after a marriage, would the prayers be all right then? My prayer request is that this relationship and our lives matter in a way that prayers for healing, restoration, and renewal can take place. I ask for prayer over blocking this relationship with another woman from progressing further. I ask that God's will be done, of course, and I ask that prayer for this relationship, valuable before AND after marriage, be preserved and strengthened. Thank you for your prayers. |