I just want to give up. My parents have been going through a separation/divorce for almost a year now after being married for 25. My mom desepartely needs counceling to to work on her own issues before anything can be better between them. My father has been broken hearted and depressed now for almost a year. I am trying to finish up school and am very busy at work this passed year. I don't want to be selfish but I feel like this is my time to move out of my parents house, finish up school, work on my career and get married. My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years and talk about getting married but I can't see moving out of my house with my dad when all of this is going on. I am moving up at work but to overwhelmed to enjoy it or even put the energy into it needed.

My parents need to talk. My mom needs to see God again. After 25 years she needs to realize that it is worth it to sit down and have a conversation and put a little effort into their problems instead of giving up.

I just feel like giving up on everything school, work, relationships.