I want to share something with you as others did with me when I was in a similar situation. I was previously in a relationship where we declared our love for each other and when we broke up, I though my world was over. I was devastated. Then several elders wrote small little notes of encouragement. May of them had been in relationships that they though was "the one". As time went on, they realized that "the one" was not what God had in mind for them. Many married women that were far beyond what they could have imagined. I have been with my best friend for 4 years and we just married. It has been over 6 years since the girl that I thought was "the one" and I broke up. I am so much happier now and truly God brought me my true match despite my thinking the previous girl was supposed to be.

I say all that to encourage you in your time of pain. I pray that God would bring you peace and hope for his plan. I pray that he would heal your wounds separately from each other. If it is his will to bring you back together again, I pray that it would be in his perfect timing. If his will is for you to be with another, I pray that he would give you a trusting heart that his will will be the best for you and bring you more joy than you thought possible. Lord be with this man and this woman and direct them in your path. Amen.