I really like the pianist at the church where I go to but am at a loss as to what to think and how to behave. I do not want to harass him or bother him. At times I feel that I will do that if I approach him. Then again, I also often feel that this is important and that I need to pray for him and our potential relationship in the future. He sometimes seems very happy when I approach him, and sometimes he seems to avoid me, and I do not know why that is. All I know is that many people would probably tell me to forget about him but that God works in mysterious ways.