True love is a gift of doing good to those who sin against you. When you give that gift, you get a taste of the character of God. Love is forgiveness with action, the kind that moves toward the one who has rejected you, where you are willing to serve and love your spouse for the sake of Christ. True love is active. You start praying daily for God to send the Holy Spirit to speak to your beloved husband or wife so that they will want reconciliation to God by confessing and repenting of their sins, and then restoration to your marriage and to your family which will occur suddenly in God’s timetable.
You can surrender your body, soul and spirit to living a Christ-like lifestyle 24 hours a day. Never doubt that God’s will and way is for your one-flesh covenant marriage to be restored. Do not listen to others who are speaking death to your marriage.