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Posted by Guest - 05-12-2014 07:02 AM
True love is a gift of doing good to those who sin against you. When you give that gift, you get a taste of the character of God. Love is forgiveness with action, the kind that moves toward the one who has rejected you, where you are willing to serve and love your spouse for the sake of Christ. True love is active. You start praying daily for God to send the Holy Spirit to speak to your beloved husband or wife so that they will want reconciliation to God by confessing and repenting of their sins, and then restoration to your marriage and to your family which will occur suddenly in God’s timetable.
You can surrender your body, soul and spirit to living a Christ-like lifestyle 24 hours a day. Never doubt that God’s will and way is for your one-flesh covenant marriage to be restored. Do not listen to others who are speaking death to your marriage.
Posted by 41prayers - 05-10-2014 07:39 PM
god bless you eddie and your wife...i will be praying,im so sad,discouraged my husband left me ,and i havie been living in my husabnds words for relief of the pain,anxiety,for reassurence that we would be ok.i pray constantly,all day,i call out to the lord to heal my husband,my marriage...im so afraid,sad some nites lay awak...eddie your story is almost like mine,my husband will text me he loves me,but wont be around me because there is some else.im truely sad.the response you recieved were so uplifting and opened my eyes,yes ive been praying,praying,,and begging the lord,but have i truely pur my faith in the lord?i have sunken into my own sadness,and what the other person wrote is so true...i need god,and god has to be my number in everything,my faith should be in my heavenly father not in my husbands words.tonite i will pray for you and your wife,and also for me and my husband!i hope for many prayers that my heart be filled with the spirit,and my walk with god closer.i ask for strong prayer,for protection from satan,and his lies!for a hedge to surround my whole family,,for complete healing in my marriage,for my husband to return willingly.my god is huge!im so glad i found this site,god bless you eddie,,,have faith in your heavenly father,let him be your peace..believe in his promises for all of us.before closing could i request strong prayer ,,,please,i could really use some strong partners..toniteim feeling little weak,and really do miss my husband..
Posted by Guest - 05-08-2014 12:02 PM
Thank You for putting me in my place. I lost sight of how powerful God is. I know he is in control and I let go of my situation and ask him to Bless us with his favor. God Bless! Eddie
Posted by Guest - 05-07-2014 11:48 AM
You can cry all day long and pray, but that's not going to move God to work on your situation. He does hear your cry and undertand your needs, but that's not faith and faith is what it takes for God to move that mountain out of your life. The need we have in our time of grief is to get the person we love back into our lives. We love him and miss him (or her) and it hurts, Oh God does it hurt. But God wants us to love and miss Him more than we miss our mate. He wants us to lean on Him, give Him our grief and let Him take care of it for us. He wants your love, your plea's and to get out of His way.
You see, God wants a relationship with you, an intimate relationship. He wants to be number 1# in your life. "Love God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your might." God first, your spouse second. When were weeping and crying praying to get our mate back, we're putting our needs before God. You'll know who you love most by who you think about most. When you're praying for God to restore your marriage in your dire need, are you thinking about God, or yourself?
Once you establish a strong relationship with God, pray then be patient. QUIT WORRYING. Life has dealt you a blow, but you cannot sit around and worry all the time. God will take all your burdens and carry them for you.
You need healing, so ask the Holy Spirit to rid of your anger, your fear, your anxieties. Ask God to remove everything that is keeping you from restoring your marriage. Give God all your burdens and let Him take care of them for you. Once you've given Him your burdens, quit trying to take them back. Trust in Him. Have faith that He will take care of all your needs, your problems, your trials, your emotional roller coaster ride. He wants to help you...All you have to do is ask. Ask, then,

But God says, "I can do exceedingly and abundantly above and beyond all that you can ask, think or imagine. Greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world, for I am in you. You can do all things through Christ because I will give you strength to overcome. Trust in Me, do not lean on your own understanding. I am smiling down on you right now. I CAN heal your marriage and will bring about a wonderful reconcilliation because I work all things together for the good. Be confident and patient and you will receive My favor in amazing ways. I am a BIG God, there is nothing to difficult for Me. You are blessed, you are victorious. I will open up doors that no man can shut. My blessings are running down on you now and they are overtaking you. I love you, I will take care of this situation for you. Stand strong in faith and trust Me, and get out of my way because I'm comming through, and I'm coming through in the Name of Jesus."
Just trust God to heal your marriage because marriage healing is in the bible, the promises of God, that are crystal clear. He does not want you divorced, He wants you and your mate married for a lifetime, one man married to one woman for life, until death. He hates divorce (Malichi), so much that He says the one who would do such a cruel thing to their spouse is cut off from Him. He will not listen to their pleas for help. However, when you ask God to restore your marriage, you can trust that He sent help for the restoration the moment you asked. His word says so and He is not a man that He could lie.

I have put Husband or Him in the prayer. Replace it with Wife or her if need be.

Lord, deliver my wife from the power of darkness, and cause her to put on the armor of light. Help her in her daily walk to put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and Cause her to turn her eyes away from worthless things...to come to her senses, and escape the snare of the devil. Deliver her from immorality, strife, and envy, and draw her close to You, Father, with a true and contrite heart. Create in her a hunger and thirst for You and Your righteousness, and revive her in Your ways. I ask that You and fill her with the knowledge of Your will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding; that she might have a walk worthy of You, Lord, fully pleasing You, being fruitful in every good work, and increasing in the knowledge of You, strengthened with all might, according to Your glorious power.

Bring her into the calling that You have predestined for her; help her to serve You with a loyal heart and with a willing mind, and instruct her in the way she should go. Let her a be doer of the Word and not a hearer only, meditating in Your Word day and night. Establish her heart, so she will never be shaken, and show her a way of escape with every temptation. Let her owe no man anything except her love. A love that is in deed and truth, not just in word and speech. Let her be a volunteer serving You in the time of Your power. Seeking first Your kingdom so that he will reap abundant blessings.

I pray that she will honor You with her possessions and with the first fruits of her increase; Praising the Lord with her whole heart in the assembly of the upright and in the congregation, walking humbly with You Lord, being determined to act justly, loving mercy and righteousness, being gracious and full of compassion.
Posted by Eddie - 05-07-2014 06:22 AM
Dear Lord, I ask that you will stop this divorce between my wife and I. Open her eyes to see Lord that this is not the answer. Help us to restore our marriage to be stronger and filled with your love. Please cast away anything that is blocking us from reuniting and free her from the hold satan has on her so that she may see that only thru you can she truly find happiness. Father I ask that you will give us another extension on the divorce date so that she will realize that her family needs her and she will come back home to us. Help me to choose my words with your words so that she will know how much I truly love and miss her. Father I forgive her for all she's done just as you forgive us. I ask this in your name Lord. Amen!