I would suggest, instead of trying to make your mom happy or others happy. Why do you not try this , even if you do not desire to change, as it worked for me, in a sin I struggled with , that I did not want to change or give up.

I prayed this simple prayer:

Dear Jesus,

I am not willing to change right now, but I ask that you give me the willingness to change.

Amen.

It has been almost 7 years , through that simple prayers, God did give me the willingness to change, and the strength to conquer that sin in my life that was not only hurting me , but also my loved ones. Just like you , for years , many people prayed for me, and just like you, I tried to change for them, it did not last, but when I wanted to truly change , as I knew what I was doing was a sin, even though I loved the sin at the time, God did amazing and wonderful things in my life. Now 7 years later, I see how satan had me so trapped in that sin , and had my head full of his lies. Jesus loves you, and you are so blessed to have many praying for you. Jesus wants you to live an abundant , victorious life, just trust , surrender and even if you are not willing, pray for willingness.

Our prayers will be with you.

Be blessed.