I am discerning a lot of things and I will not be frank of anything I want to say but all I can say to you here is you have to pray for these childern first and cover them with the Blood of Jesus and not pray for the children to respect you. God will take care the rest. Bless these children and ask God our Father in heaven to fulfill His plans for each of them. You must pray in the Spirit because it is a spiritual war type of prayer that you need to pray. I pray that the Holy Spirit will reveal to you the Will of the Father in Jesus' name.