I understand your pain. My husband wants a divorce as well, and I want to work on our marriage. I love him so much it hurts and I don't want to lose him either. Please do not lose faith. Give your life and your marriage over to the Lord and ask Him to guide you to transform you and your marriage in His image. Look to his word for His promises that are real and true. When all else dies away in this world all that will be left is Him and His promises because they supersede any and everything on this earth. He will never leave you nor forsake you. He can heal your marriage. He can restore and make your marriage new. Pray with your wife if you can, but if not you can still pray on your own. Continue to ask for help in prayer. Christ said "Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them." And, "This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears us—whatever we ask—we know that we have what we asked of him." These aren't just things that were written about the past, they are real promises for use in our lives right now. I know that He can save your marriage even now. I know how much it hurts and this world would have us believe that all is lost because nothing "seems" to be different. But God is moving in your life even now and will not forsake you. "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." Galatians 6:9. Speak this promises out loud in your life. Use your tongue to fight the enemy, who wants to destroy your family. Use God's own words from the bible. With words, God spoke the earth and the heavens into existence. His words are powerful and when we use them in our own lives they have power over darkness. God wants to save your marriage. God wants to save your family. Don't forget that and please do not give up. Fall, but get back up and God will be there ever time.
"Lord, please save his marriage and his family. Use them according to your will. Move in them and touch their lives in a profound and miraculous way for your Glory. We know that there is nothing to big for you Lord and that you are able to make all things new. Father, I pray that your Holy Spirit would come upon this family and that you would drive out anything that is not from you. Lord, please heal this family for you have said that "the words that I speak to you are spirit and they are life". Father, I pray "LIFE" into this family and this marriage Lord, in your name.Thank you for loving us and for never leaving us. Thank you for your promises and your grace. Thank you for being our healer and for forgiving our iniquities. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen."
I will continue to pray for our marriages. Thank you for seeking Him and for letting us pray for you.