Paula's ex husband will be paying a huge price by his actions what he did to her & his family. She is speaking as any woman burned by a man & left in a divorce that she did not want. It takes time & her life is difficult. I pray she lets go of this man that God Deals with him, then she will find peace & begin to heal. People that divorce without good cause create an unbelievable havoc in another's life. God Will Bring Justice.
My ex husband is the most evil man I have met. I can relate to her disorientation. Once she does let go of this man she will find peace & begin to heal.
Many Christians think they can say, "forgive me Lord," then keep on hurting others. God's Justice Reigns.

(10-20-2011 06:39 AM)Guest Wrote:  The bible also tells us this:
Matthew 15:11
What goes into a man's mouth does not make him 'unclean,' but what comes out of his mouth, that is what makes him 'unclean.'"
Matthew 15:18
But the things that come out of the mouth come from the heart, and these make a man 'unclean.'
James 3:6
The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole person, sets the whole course of his life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.
That's why we should read the bible and understand what it means to us so we can live a better life. and apply it to your life. It's a manual God gave us so we can have a more abundant life, and gain wisdom from it.

Jesus help Paula not to lose her job and to get closer to you so she can be happy again. Let her see the only one who can make her happy is you. May she allow you to guide her life so she can be successful instead of always being miserable. I pray this in your precious name, amen.

thank u and praise god for all the good people on here. especially those that went through what i am going through. my kids dont talk to me i cannot talk to them they talk to tim. tim told me he does not remember cheating on me only remembers me yelling. does not remember doing porn bad bab porn or not working. he told me i rmember the bad things. no that is y i still love him i remember the good times our wedding and giving it to god the day he got saved and baptized in "God and started going to church with me. the day the twins were concieved and born. more. my heart is breaking to know he is with g/f now. i miss him and told him how i feel deeply i told him sometimes i think i miss him more than the kids. sad but true. my heart back and mind is breaking. the meeting went well but still making stup0id mistakes at work. i went to a job interview and was told i am not qualified for job. what next my life is amess pray for me. tim's bdya is coming up and i want to spend it with him bdaly the day he leaves his g/f to come home to me and the kid come home to me will be a party big party in my life pray to God it can happen

Paula, my sister, let go! You say your life is a mess...but you continue to seek after the things that made it that way, Your children are elsewhere, being raised by others and you continue to seek after a man that has moved on? Paula...God is not in this! The word says that when a MAN finds a wife it is a good thing. There is no reference to a woman stalking a man, begging him for his return, begging him for crumbs of affection in that Word. Paula...you will never find that which you seek in Tim or any other man. You have given Tim the position in your life that belongs to God. The quest for Tim has replaced God in your life and it is because of this that you remain confused and unhappy. Stop living in the past so that you can build a future...and that future starts with loving God more than anyone or anything else. You cannot attract love when you are broadcasting desperation... not from your children and not from a man! No-one wants to be with the desperate...for that is NOT LOVE. Paula if you will allow Him to...God will teach you to respect yourself as you respect Him more. You are not a little no-body that needs to beg Tim or anyone else for anything. You are the child of a King...royalty from the blood-line of Christ. When you start seeing yourself that way...you will see a whole new potential for yourself. Please in the name of all that is Holy stop waiting to begin living again when and if Tim re-enters your life...to continue that way will only lead to years going by and a lonely old age.

Put yourself in the hands of God...and devote yourself to Him and honoring Him. When you do you will also honor you and your life will change for the better. Let go Paula and let God lead you! In Jesus name...Amen!

Dear Paula. Adoring1 is right. Please know she speaks in LOVE. Right now, you need to focus on God and not Tim. Let God work in YOU, change YOU and be what you need. I know it is hard but one day at a time. Let God work in the life of Tim. If God wants you back together, he would not want to put you back together unchanged because that did not work the last time and it would not work this time. So let Tim go, let God in and start the hard work on changing you, and you will be amazed. I tell you God does not want this for you. He is a God who wants to bless and adore you, he wants so much for you, and yes, he wants more for Tim but unless you start to walk with God and leave Tim alone, it is not going to happen :(. I feel your pain, dont get me wrong, but until you work on you, nothing is going to change and that is a fact. God will honour you and will reward you for what has been stolen but only if you get real with him. We all love you Paula, know that. AMEN.

sorry

Paula how did the meeting at work go? I'm praying for you and will continue, but will like to know if all went well there so we can give thanks to God for helping you out with that. Concentrate on the good things that happen to you everyday and not on the bad ones. You always let us know when things go bad, but what about when we pray for you and things go right, for example with your work? For that you never let us know, but if you are still there after you thinking you would lose it, that is not a little blessing but a big one to be grateful for. Look around you I'm sure there are even more blessings for you to thank God everyday of your life. Let God see you are grateful to Him in the good times and bad times, no matter how small you may think they are, be grateful to God for them. When He sees you are grateful to Him he will then send you bigger blessings, remember that.
Lord may Paula learn to be grateful to you and turn her whole life over to you so you can start working in her and her situation. In Jesus Christ Precious name I pray, amen.

the meeting went well but i am still making mistakes at work. pray that i stop. i have been looking for a better job but nothing. please pray for direction in my life. weekends are bad for me. lonely depressed and miss my family and kids. miss tim badly pray that he removes the new g./f and comes back to me. again. i miss him badly. in jesus precious name amen pray for my house and car to car is not doing well i am so lonely and depresed going to therapy on november 11 and on november 3 have a meeting with the courts about my kids i miss them my heart breaks more on the weekends and in themorning some mornings i just feel like staying in bed.

Do You Know...
•GOD LOVES YOU
•SIN SEPARATES PEOPLE FROM GOD
•JESUS DIED FOR YOUR SINS
•YOU CAN RECEIVE JESUS NOW AND KNOW GOD'S LOVE

" If you confess with you mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you shall be saved."

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Paula pray this prayer out loud:

Heavenly Father, in Jesus' name I repent of my sins and open my heart to let Jesus come inside of me.
Jesus, You are my Lord and Savior. I believe you died for my sins and you were raised from the dead.
Fill me with your Holy Spirit. Thank You Father for saving me in Jesus' name. Amen.


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My Spiritual Birth Certificate

"For whoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved." Romans 10:13

Knowing that I have sinned and that I need the Lord Jesus Christ as my Savior, I now turn from my sins and trust Jesus for my eternal life.

I ask Jesus Christ to forgive me and to deliver me from sin's power and give me eternal life.

I now give Jesus Christ control of my life.

From this time forward, as He gives me strength, I will seek to serve Him and obey Him in all areas of my life.

I believe Paula has already accepted Jesus into her heart, otherwise she won't be asking for prayers, so we shouldn't judge her. Her problem is she has an obsession toward her x-husband, and don't know how to put her faith in God into action. So please let's pray for that and not judge her since she is not thinking straight.
Lord deliver Paula from this obsession toward her husband, and help her put her focus on you and you alone. Continue to help, protect, and provide for her. In Jesus name I pray for her and her children, amen.