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Should I???

Im having problems with my husband lately things have not been the same.... His mother is jealous of me and I dont communicate with his family at all I have thoughts about leaving my marriage alot what should I do?? I recently met a man who shows strong interest in me I imagine us making love and watching tv just being honest im in a love triangle kinda akward plz dont judge me please help me out
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09-12-2011 04:32 PM
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All I can say is God our Father in Heaven is not on your side on this one. You have grieved the Holy Spirit.
09-12-2011 05:55 PM
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I would suggest to pray for wisdom concerning this. See how it works out being you and the other guy and to take your time, not to rush into things. Praying for healing between you, your husband and his family.
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09-12-2011 06:01 PM
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God will never want you to do something contradicting his word one man you are competing adultey by doing this I will pray for God to give u wisdom & strength to not make a mistake watch the movie fireproof stay strong in God. God will help you your marriage may be rocky right now & satan is taking advantage of the things you are going through in your marriage & tempting you & making you lust Gods word says that prayer & fasting help you conquer temptations
09-12-2011 06:35 PM
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DEAR LORD help me with this.......young woman you are playing with fire and this fire burns it just doesn't singe you..you don't say whether you are with CHRIST by this I mean are you BORN-AGAIN do you know JESUS AS YOUR PERSONALLY SAVIOR. yOU HAVE ASKED US TO PRAY FOR THIS SITUATION,,, THE ONLY THING OUT OF THE WHOLE MESS IS THAT I WILL PRAY FOR YOUR SALVATION AND EVERY BODY ELSE'S THAT IS IN VOLVED IN THIS VICIOUS TRAP...LET ME TELL YOU HOW TO BECOME BORN-AGAIN YOU GO THE LORD AND ASK HIM TO FORGIVE YOU OF YOUR SINS AND TO COME INTO YOUR HEART AND LIFE AND TURN YOU AROUND..THERE ARE TWO BIRTH
1) IS WHEN YOU ARE BORN INTO THIS WORLD WHERE YOU HAVE NO SAY SO TO WHOM YOUR PARENTS WILL BE
2) IS WHEN YOU ARE GIVEN THE CHOICE BETWEEN JESUS OR satan
you have been given the chance BY THE LORD GOD ALMIGHTY WHO LOVES YOU SO MUCH IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO PUT INTO WORDS TO CHOOSE WHOM YOU WANT TO SPEND ETERNITY WITH AND WHERE HEAVEN OR HELL!!! PLEASE UNDERSTND I AM NOT BEATING YOU UP,
I AM TELLING YOU THESE THINGS TO SAVE YOUR LIFE..YOU SEE I HAVE BEEN THERE AND DONE WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND YOU DON'T WANT TO PAY THE PRICE I DID!!!!!

FATHER I LIFT UP THIS WOMAN AND I ASK THAT YOU WILL ENLIGHTEN THE EYES OF HER UNDERSTANDING AND DRAW HER NIGH
TO YOUR LOVING ARMS IN JESUS NAME Warrior Bible
09-12-2011 07:05 PM
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I agree with comment number one. Forget about comment number two in that it is not Biblical. You actually need to read the Bible and it is apparent you don't. So pick one up, go to the back in references and look up divorce. Go to the different verses that talk about it. Your answer is in the Bible, which is what you want right? You want a Biblical answer right?
09-12-2011 09:42 PM
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I pray that you DONT listen to Satan and fall into the trap of adultery. It is not worth is and breaks your vows. Look at this site and the prayers of those broken by adultery. I pray you get into your bible - look at proverbs about what it says about adultery. Look at so much that is in the bible. Please I pray you may ask God to take away this temptation and to give you a new heart for your husband. AMEN.
09-13-2011 01:05 AM
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yes I want a biblical answer is it right for him to mistreat me and put his family before me? How do I handle this he hit me oneday! Plz help im torn
09-13-2011 07:27 AM
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No it's not biblical for him to treat you that way or put his family as you are his wife & you should be first however if he was an unbeliever since u married him 2 Corinthians 6:14 says we shouldn't be yoked with them in other words united in marriage because it cause problems however if u did marry him all you can do is pray for God to give u wisdom & strength & to restore your marriage bible says what you confess with your mouth in Jesus name will be done you must proclaim life in to your marriage restoration pray for obedience only God can change but you must be patient in God & wait on him dont fall into a temptation right now if the man is interested in you while you are married how does that make him in honest man give yourself respect you need discipline yourself to God wait upon him & no evil will prevail declare your husband for Christ bless you
09-13-2011 07:55 AM
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First you search your heart. God does not expect you to be abused and you seek Christian help. (counselling etc) Then........you both go for help. If he wants out, so be it. Divorce must be a final option. HOWEVER ...........in the meantime you do NOT cling to another man to provide for you in place of your husband. You wait until your divorce is final (if that is what God wants) and well after you have recovered and been on your own, seeking God's will then, and only then do you look at another relationship. Trust me - on this. Do not go into the arms of another man, that is ungodly and God expects us to remain committed to him and him only.
09-13-2011 08:21 AM
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