Doll,
thanks for all the advice please pray that god leads my path

You want us to agree with you in regards to your feelings about the other man. You stated that your husband mistreated you so it is justifiable to commit adultery? If you are born-again christian or any denominational christian, you would not ask this type of prayer request. If you have been reading the words of God in the Bible, you would know that even your thoughts without acting on it, you have already committed adultery. Ask God, for forgiveness both for you and your husband. Speak blessings on your husband. Confess God's promises regarding marriage. Ask the Holy Spirit to give you wisdom and understanding of what you are going through. Most of all, you must feed you mind, body and soul with the words of God. Read the Bible over and over in the spirit. If you don't understand what I am saying to you, then you must be saved in the name of our Lord Jesus. The answer to your prayer request....Should I??? ...is NO in Jesus' name.

My husband hasnt changed he makes me feel insecure and ugly it breaks my heart I fantasize alot about men who would treat me right how come do I feel this way? my husband pays no attention to me at all.... I know that being with other men isnt ok what do I do?

I have to say that I don't judge you. Please know that. Don't communicate with this other person anymore. See, the enemy's main objective is destroying the things Our Lord has created and loves the most, Marriage and Family. This man seems great but he isn't, trust me, this is all the enemy, just like the forbidden fruit in the garden and he tempted Eve to eat it, this is the same thing. it looks great but it isn't, it's horrible and will leave you nothing and i mean nothing but broken hearted, trust me when i tell you this. take this to God, ask Him to help you with your temptations and give your Marriage to Our Lord, He can heal all things, but please don't do this. I know how it feels to be abused and mistreated and sometimes that can make you be even more tempted, I have been there, but Our Lord does not want us to deal with our pain by sinning against Him. This has to be very painful for you and my heart bleeds for you. Our Lord can take care of all of this, and He will. He already is. Our Lord loves you and adores you, no matter how tempted you are.

RE: Should I???
(You want us to agree with you in regards to your feelings about the other man. You stated that your husband mistreated you so it is justifiable to commit adultery? If you are born-again christian or any denominational christian, you would not ask this type of prayer request. If you have been reading the words of God in the Bible, you would know that even your thoughts without acting on it, you have already committed adultery. Ask God, for forgiveness both for you and your husband. Speak blessings on your husband. Confess God's promises regarding marriage. Ask the Holy Spirit to give you wisdom and understanding of what you are going through. Most of all, you must feed you mind, body and soul with the words of God. Read the Bible over and over in the spirit. If you don't understand what I am saying to you, then you must be saved in the name of our Lord Jesus. The answer to your prayer request....Should I??? ...is NO in Jesus' name.)

In reply to "LordINeedYouNow"......
["Don't communicate with this other person anymore."] My dear sister in Christ, let's not debate about God's will. What is wrong with all the statements above. You disagree? Asking God for forgiveness first and repent? I understand. The word "NO" is not enough answer. I humbly apologize to you "LordINeedYouNow". Father, I ask for your forgiveness and I repent my sin for giving advise to someone about reading your words. Forgive me Father for offending "LordINeedYouNow". God, I ask you to bless "LordINeedYouNow" with all your might in Jesus' name. God bless you in Jesus' name.

Doll,
"LordINeedYouNow" god bless you your so sweet and helpful I admire your advice thank you it gives me hope to make the right choices and not do wrong

Dear Lord,please have mercy on this woman.
In the Name of the Lord,right now I command to all the power of darkness and the curses to leave this woman! Now!
I pray that Your will to be done in their life.
You are the King of kings and Your Name is Wonderful.
Thank You my Lord