I care very much about a friend. We have had hours of conversations about past broken relationships, our divorces, etc. He is afraid of love or a relationship due to his very painful divorce almost 2 years ago. His wife cheated and left him, and he dated a girl in the past year, but she was a very negative person, and he ended things. He say he feels he may end up alone forever. We've grown very close through our talks, but he either doesn't realize I am very interested in him, or doesn't think what he senses is accurate.
We are both mid 40's and divorced with grown kids. We have been talking alot and grown very close emotionally.
Honestly, I think it scared him how close we were getting (emotionally) because he had a vacation he took alone to clear his head, and has since distanced himself from me and we rarely text, much less talk.
The last phone call was over 20 days ago, I miss him so much! I know he is busy with work and just found out his dad has cancer as well. He was there for me when my dad passed away recently, I want to be there for him as well. Please pray for him, for us.
I want to be on his mind and be the one he misses when we are not speaking.
Pray he'd open his heart to me, that his mind keep wandering back to our talks, and to thoughts of me, and let him see that I do care about him. I pray he misses me and wants to talk again, like we used to. We were talking a few times a day. He admits he is afraid of love...pray he'd open up to me and we could date and maybe have a relationship. We are both Christians, and have so much in common, I care about him very much, let his fears of love diminish and that he'd open his eyes and see that he/I could make a great pair!