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Relationship dilemma - Guest - 10-26-2010 11:37 AM
I care very much about a friend. We have had hours of conversations about past broken relationships, our divorces, etc. He is afraid of love or a relationship due to his very painful divorce almost 2 years ago. His wife cheated and left him, and he dated a girl in the past year, but she was a very negative person, and he ended things. He say he feels he may end up alone forever. We've grown very close through our talks, but he either doesn't realize I am very interested in him, or doesn't think what he senses is accurate.
We are both mid 40's and divorced with grown kids. We have been talking alot and grown very close emotionally.
Honestly, I think it scared him how close we were getting (emotionally) because he had a vacation he took alone to clear his head, and has since distanced himself from me and we rarely text, much less talk.
The last phone call was over 20 days ago, I miss him so much! I know he is busy with work and just found out his dad has cancer as well. He was there for me when my dad passed away recently, I want to be there for him as well. Please pray for him, for us.
I want to be on his mind and be the one he misses when we are not speaking.
Pray he'd open his heart to me, that his mind keep wandering back to our talks, and to thoughts of me, and let him see that I do care about him. I pray he misses me and wants to talk again, like we used to. We were talking a few times a day. He admits he is afraid of love...pray he'd open up to me and we could date and maybe have a relationship. We are both Christians, and have so much in common, I care about him very much, let his fears of love diminish and that he'd open his eyes and see that he/I could make a great pair!
RE: Relationship dilemma - Guest - 10-27-2010 09:19 AM
The bible says that a friend sticks closer than a brother. Lord I pray that this relationship with be supportive and loving. I pray that your will, will be accomplished in this couple. Let the lady wait on the Lord on this one. I pray that she will be patient with her friend and that he will come around when he realizes that she wants God's will above all things. Take away the spirit of fear in this man Lord. I pray that he will get some councelling and support. He must feel like a failure and this is a tool the enemy uses to keep us under his control. I place all these fears under your blood Lord and pray that you would deliver him from it. God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power, of love and of a sound mind. Help this man to love himself and stop being self destructive. In Jesus name I pray.
RE: Relationship dilemma - stevendanielsen - 10-27-2010 10:27 PM
Dear Havenly Father The Kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven forgive us are sin as we for give are debtor and lead us not into temptiation but deliver us from evil Please answer this person prayer acord to your will and bless there life Lord and we give you all the honor,glory, and priase to whom all power belong. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN
RE: Relationship dilemma - adoring1 - 10-28-2010 04:12 PM
Father if this is the man that you have for this guest, I pray that you would unite them a way that would bring joy to each of them and glory to you. In Jesus name...Amen!