My wife and I have been seperated for 2 months, and she is seeing someone else. She filed dissolution papers and I have signed them. I do not want this however. I believe God hates divorce. Many people tell me it's over and to move on. I don't feel led that way. God is not bound by my circumstances. People say God will not go against my wife's will if she wants to do this, that may be so, but He can change her will. He did so with Jonah when he wouldn't go to Nineveh, He did so with Hosea's wife (Gomer?) In the desert. He can do so with my wife as well. Pray that she has moments such as theses to bring her back into God's will. Lord, you can restore or marriage. Do not let this covenant be broken. Use this situation Lord, allow us to overcome it, reconcile, and use it to glorify You. We are one flesh God, let no one tear us apart as You have joined us together. I ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.

A Standers Affirmation
I AM STANDING FOR THE HEALING OF MY MARRIAGE!... I will not give up, give in, give out or give over 'til that healing takes place. I made a vow, I said the words, I gave the pledge, I gave a ring, I took a ring, I gave myself, I trusted GOD, and said the words, and meant the words... in sickness and in health, in sorrow and in joy, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in good times and in bad...so I am standing NOW, and will not sit down, let down, slow down, calm down, fall down, look down or be down 'til the breakdown is torn down!
I refuse to put my eyes on outward circumstances, or listen to prophets of doom, or buy into what is trendy, worldly, popular, convenient, easy, quick, thrifty, or advantageous... nor will I settle for a cheap imitation of God's real thing, nor will I seek to lower God's standard, twist God's will, rewrite God's word, violate God's covenant, or accept what God hates, namely divorce!
In a world of filth, I will stay pure; surrounded by lies I will speak the truth; where hopelessness abounds, I will hope in God: where revenge is easier, I will bless instead of curse; and where the odds are stacked against me, I will trust in God's faithfulness.
I am a STANDER, and I will not acquiesce, compromise, quarrel or quit.. I have made the choice, set my face, entered the race, believed the Word, and trusted God for all the outcome.
I will allow neither the reaction of my spouse, nor the urging of my friends, nor the advice of my loved ones, nor economic hardship, nor the prompting of the devil to make me let up, slow up, blow up, or give up 'til my marriage is healed.

(10-30-2013 08:56 AM)Guest Wrote:  A Standers Affirmation
I AM STANDING FOR THE HEALING OF MY MARRIAGE!... I will not give up, give in, give out or give over 'til that healing takes place. I made a vow, I said the words, I gave the pledge, I gave a ring, I took a ring, I gave myself, I trusted GOD, and said the words, and meant the words... in sickness and in health, in sorrow and in joy, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in good times and in bad...so I am standing NOW, and will not sit down, let down, slow down, calm down, fall down, look down or be down 'til the breakdown is torn down!
I refuse to put my eyes on outward circumstances, or listen to prophets of doom, or buy into what is trendy, worldly, popular, convenient, easy, quick, thrifty, or advantageous... nor will I settle for a cheap imitation of God's real thing, nor will I seek to lower God's standard, twist God's will, rewrite God's word, violate God's covenant, or accept what God hates, namely divorce!
In a world of filth, I will stay pure; surrounded by lies I will speak the truth; where hopelessness abounds, I will hope in God: where revenge is easier, I will bless instead of curse; and where the odds are stacked against me, I will trust in God's faithfulness.
I am a STANDER, and I will not acquiesce, compromise, quarrel or quit.. I have made the choice, set my face, entered the race, believed the Word, and trusted God for all the outcome.
I will allow neither the reaction of my spouse, nor the urging of my friends, nor the advice of my loved ones, nor economic hardship, nor the prompting of the devil to make me let up, slow up, blow up, or give up 'til my marriage is healed.

I am meeting with my wife tomorrow morning. Please pray that the Holy Spirit intercedes on behalf of reconciliation. God can do all things above and beyond my imagination. Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. I have faith God will restore my family. Please pray in agreement with me that tomorrow God will move.

I'm praying for you that the Holy Spirit intercedes and helps to restore your family. God has a plan for you!! May he help your wife to recognize the gift he has given her with a devoted husband... He can change her will. God Bless.

Well the meeting didn't go well. But God is working, I just can't see it. Keep praying for reconciliation and restoration. We have not been to court yet so she is still my wife. I pray God chases her as He did Jonah. I pray He whispers to her as He did Gomer. I still have faith, the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. In Jesus' name. Amen

(11-03-2013 12:40 PM)Guest Wrote:  Well the meeting didn't go well. But God is working, I just can't see it. Keep praying for reconciliation and restoration. We have not been to court yet so she is still my wife. I pray God chases her as He did Jonah. I pray He whispers to her as He did Gomer. I still have faith, the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. In Jesus' name. Amen

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We have a court date now :-(
December 6 is the date. I pray God touches her heart. I pray God chases her and returns her will back to his. I pray He returns her, and my family, back to me. I pray we do not reach this court date. God's will is not divorce but reconciliation and restoration. I pay His will is done.

Please continue to pray. I'm praying God releases my wife from satan's snare.

We have talked/texted the previous 2 days and was going better than I expected. She kept asking me to stop and itwas hard to stay distant when I. Was being nice. She asked me today to give her time to think and clear her head. Good is moving I feel. Please pray in agreement with me that he continues to move in her heart.