My girlfriend Debra Ann and I are needing prayer help that our relationship can develop and deepen in mutual love. I love my girlfriend very much it has become difficult though in that much of her energy it seems goes toward relatively shallow pursuits and we spend very little time together or doing things to make what we have more meaningful or lasting, it hurts my heart because I want to do more and see more occuring in our hearts and lives to really say we are a couple but it's like Debra's mind is elsewhere nor does she really "reach out" for us the way that I do, it's a need for more seriousness on her part which is hard to comment on because I want other then to gripe about a beautiful blessing from God that I believe she is, but it aches me deep inside my chest to where I spend my evenings in tears crying because I see so little of the woman that I love, I ask with all of my heart please keep me in your prayers that if she can that Debra be in a more committed, love-seeking frame of mind with regard to our relationship because we can really go somewhere and when we both are trying it's like the most enjoyable experience I've ever known being with her, it's just that it takes so much effort just to be in her presence that I end up being worn out we need our opportunity for a loving marriage to be as obstacle-free as possible.