I sit here, heavy hearted, feeling a little defeated. Fred has given up…on us, on me, on the kids and himself. I don’t know how you can say “I can’t do this anymore” but still love and care deeply for someone. I just don’t know what to do. I feel like I am not living my life, that I am just watching it happen. Our life was to get easier in a couple of month (kids both going to college). Please pray for us. For Fred to come back to each one of us, to reconnect with me, to go to therapy by himself and with me…I want my partner in life back, I am so very lonely and sad without him…he is my great love.

I have prayed for you and your partner. Leave Him in God's hands...He is the only one that can change a heart - He knows exactly what to do. There are things that the Lord knows about a person and the future that we cannot begin to know.

Just keep in prayer and with whatever the Lord has given you to do, and reveals to you. Let Him work this out in His way and time, for He really does know best. Have a very blessed day!