My husband and I are separated and he is on the fence about wanting to save our marriage. I need a yes or a no not just in words but in action. Not knowing is making me depress to the point that I cannot concentrate at work. I will accept what ever decision it is, I just need him to make one. I am hurting deeply because he is dating oh yeah he made that very clear. He sends text here and there to see how I am doing without even mentioning his decision. I feel as though he just wants to know that he has me there waiting while he weighs his options. I have not brought up the topic to him because I do not want to force him to make a decision. What I did was remove myself from the equation for a while. I just went silent and stay under the radar. I love my husband but I just do not want to be a doormat anymore where he feels as though I am just there to receive his every now and again text messages "how are you" I no longer respond because I deserve a whole lot better than every "now and again" I have let go and let God and decided to get out the way and being out the way is no further contact with him for now. I just cut his puppet strings without warning. Please pray please