I have been married for 20 years. I consider my marriage a really good one. My husband and I have had maybe 6 really bad arguments in all this time and it has always been because of his best friend and wife. They don't understand me or like me for my husband. My husband does not see this!!I have tried and tried and when I say I gave 100%, I really did. 5 years ago they moved around the corner from us. I let the past be and decide to go forward. I helped them out with everything, whether it was shopping, cleaning the house or taking care of the kids. All of a sudden they started offering my help to other people. My husband is the one who said they were taking advantage of me. It was bad. I won't go into details but they really took advantage. I distanced my self. They moved to another state and we are back where we were before, them inviting my husband to concerts, drinking, making him drive them around and their other family members. Him coming home 2 am. He only does this with them! My husband and I just had a big blow out over him coming home driving after drinking for hours at a concert. These people should not be coming between us. They know how I feel about this so to me it's on purpose. I don't understand this hold they have on my husband. He says I'm forcing him to choose. I say he already made his choice because what husband stays friends with the people who mistreat and disrespect his wife and he is the one who pointed it out to me!? It's to the point that I hate these people. I know I shouldn't but I have this deep hate inside me for them to the point I wish them death. I feel guilty for it but I don't want these people in my life and I told my husband I am not putting up with this for another 20 years. Now we're not really talking and they're home nice and happy. I never wish ill on others before. I go out of my way to be helpful but I guess no good deed goes unpunished. How can they put my husband's life in jeopardy by inviting him out to drink and party in another state knowing he has to drive home? Do they even care? He doesn't have the sense to say no because to him it's hanging with his besties. I've been so angry that my pressure is through the roof. I don't know what to do. I just wish God would open my husbands eyes so he could see that these people do not have his best interest at heart and are going to be the reason for our getting divorced. Please pray for us, I am at my whits end!