Please do not post email addresses, business names, the last names of people, or outside links. Please read our Privacy Policy Here: Privacy Policy
|
|
Need freedom badly
|
| Author |
Message |
Ald
Senior Member
  
Posts: 155
Joined: Sep 2015
|
Need freedom badly
Please pray for financial independence somehow; in 49 with career and getting divorced, my husband still pays mortgage and bills and mother moved in and buys groceries and also wants to take money out of her pension to buy a car so I can get a job, not ask ex and his girlfriend for rides and be able to get out of house. I don't want my mother to get cheated with a lemon and out of money and car. I can't put car in my name because my credit cards were canceled when ex stopped paying them (his choice to pay) and was used by one and they could repo car to pay off debt. My mother has a $9000 loan to pay off from past and I'm worried that if something goes wrong they could also take car and heaven forbid something happens to her the car could be taken if it's not in my name e en though she's buying it for me. We genuinely could really use a car to get around scared. I need a job badly but can't live on minimum wage and take care of myself let alone two kids (10, 15). Husband works nights. Even with mom here I think we could make it if I work minimum wage and she pays about $800 for groceries a month plus she has bills and needs. I don't think child support will be much plus even if it was on high end, say around $900 a month, still don't know if a minimum wage job will pay what's left in utilities plus buy gas and clothes for me and kids to boot plus car maintenance. I don't know if mom can afford a car upkeep. I'm not young anymore and can't think about a career I could do well and make a livable wage that is practical, 9 to 5 hours and not age discriminating. Healthcare is where it's at but I'm bad at science and can't stand blood and stuff. Thinks look hopeless financially. Don't know what I'm going to do or how to live. Not fair to live with my mother when she could get senior housing and live well on her own and have privacy and peace. I know she wants to leave. I even think a out remarriage in my financial situation and two kids, who would marry me and I don't want to be a leech and burden to else. Need a miracle. My brother and sister and niece and her boyfriend also call my mom about and ask her to "borrow" money. I get angry and worried about her giving them money even though it's not my money. I need out of this craziness. Need money/career to be on own and care for my kids. This is no way to live and if something happens to mom then what? I'm not a women's libber and don't want my life to revolve around a career but can't depend financially on man either or any other person. Me and husband also still married, filed counter-divorce affidavit which put stop to divorce until me and him can come to legal agreement or have a hearing and let court or judge make final ruling on house, kids, money etc... I'm scared of that because of my financial situation but I really want to be divorced so I can move on after almost three years of going through divorce. I married unbeliever and he's also cheated a few times and living with current love and involved with her I'm guessing 3 years or more. They live next door. Nothing's normal for me and kids and mom, want normal Christian life. Want love even though that seems impossible also. Want my kids to be alright and get saved, do well in school and be independent unlike me.
|
|
| 08-05-2016 11:06 AM |
|
Guest
Unregistered
|
RE: Need freedom badly
Lord, please help this person to focus on You and handle things one day at a time. Please give this person and her family clarity and peace and stability. Thank You Lord. In the name of Jesus I pray and give thanks. Amen
|
|
| 08-05-2016 06:19 PM |
|