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Please pray for God’s favour in my life.

I never had anybody loved me romantically. I had loved 3 in my life so far but it turned out that they hadn’t and I was trying to keep up and it was unhealthy and eventually they all broke. But I know the last one was from God and she had a different purpose for me. She was a Christian and I was a catholic. We were friends and worked in the same office. When I asked her out she seemed hesitated and said she doesn’t want to get in to a relationship with a guy who isn’t a true Christian. I didn’t want to change my religion just to get in to a relationship. I can say I was an active catholic person. But this made me search for God and his word more. She has had an unsuccessful relationship with a non believer and she didn’t want to show me as her boyfriend to her church and to others. I could understand it and I honoured her wish. Therefore I had to initiate everything by myself. I went to her church by myself and made friends to help me out. (Believe me it wasn’t a plan in anyway just wanted to learn) I learnt how to communicate with God directly and asked if he could make this relationship work. When she found out she was angry with me and went on not talking to me for weeks. That was the first time I started to cry out to God directly and started to pray in my own words. After it seemed alright with both of us but she did not want to get in to a serious relationship. ie she didn’t want to disclose our relationship to the world. Whereas I thought this is it; and this is the one that God want me to live my life with. I prayed and prayed nothing was happening. (FYI we were not living together) during this time I had to go abroad for a official matter and I tried to keep in touch as much as possible despite expensive calling tariff. But it wasn’t like in the home country. All of a sudden she stopped talking to me saying that she doesn’t want to. When I was back after three weeks I was surprised to find out that she went out with a non believer that she met in a chat room of a social network while I was away. I was very upset and stood against it because I had the feeling that it will harm her. I prayed and prayed. Eventually she stopped it and we were okay. Then she had to go on an official trip to UK for three months. I was upset and I prayed that if God could take me to UK as well. She would talk to me over the phone and every thing seemed well. I thought I will surprise her and applied for visa and got it. Then I told her I’m coming and of course she was surprised. Then a few minutes later she called me and explained how she met this guy from a social network and she had been talking to him for sometime. I felt like I lost everything and falling from a 20 storey building. Then I knew I had enough. Long story short I didn’t speak to her and she got married to that guy eight months later.
During first six months of this I was scared to open that social network and see them both together. It was one of the most painful experiences in my life.
Nevertheless I understand she was the best thing that happened to me SO FAR until I’ll find the love of my life. She made me search for God by myself and stand on my own feet before God. God is amazing in his ways. Her purpose for me was just to save me. Today in anyway I can’t think badly about her. I pray for God’s favour in her family life.
It’s been two years since this I made a promise to my self I shall wait for God to bring me the woman that he has for me. Because I don’t want to end up in so much pain again. Now to be honest I feel alone and the need to be loved. Please pray that God will bring that woman he has for me across my path soon.

Thank you and God bless you and all your love ones.
(This post was last modified: 10-08-2010 10:04 AM by Diasr.)
10-08-2010 09:59 AM
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Father, thank you for the understanding of his journey that you have revealed to Diasr. Thank you that he understands that all come into our lives for a reason...sometimes just for a season...and sometimes for life. Father...let Diasr focus for now on developing the character of a Spiritual leader and prepare himself to be the Spiritual head of a woman and a home. Let him study your word on the subject that he might be prepared to love a woman the way you intend. While romance in a relationship is pleasant and has an important place...it is not the thing that binds hearts together for life...which is why there are so many that are divorced today. It is being Spiritually of one accord (which goes far beyond being saved) that accomplishes that task and is the adhesive for long term relationships. Let him come to know how to identify this with woman that he dates...and let him guard his heart until he knows this is the case with whomever he chooses. Father...as he prepares himself for this awesome responsibility...let him also study the Proverbs 31 woman...which is the model you have for a wife that he might recognize her when she appears. Father lead the one that you have to him when you know that he is ready that his life as a husband will be fulfilling. In Jesus name...Amen!
10-08-2010 10:28 AM
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Dear Lord,

Thank you for the encouragement of this man's story. I pray that You would bring the person that is meant for him in his life. Please allow him to see You through it and thank You for this man's salvation.

In Christ's name I pray. Amen.
10-08-2010 10:44 AM
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Lord it is hard to be lonely, it is hard to be alone. We need physcial touch and words of afirmation. I know I feel alone myself even though I am married to a man who is never, never intimate. Lord your love alone is enough. Can two walk together unless they agree? I pray that whoever you have for this man will be worth the wait. Thank you for bringing him to the truth. I pray he will trust you Lord even in the lonliness. I pray he will not suffer my fate. Waiting is good. Sometimes we wait only to be dissapointed. I pray he will not be dissapointed Lord. Grant him true Love and not a fantansy that cannot be reached. Bless him to have a marriage of the lasting kind. I pray for children and an equal match. A match choosen by God. May he be fruitful for you Lord. Bless him greatly I pray in Jesus name.
10-08-2010 03:33 PM
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Thank you adoring1 and guests. Thank you for the words of encouragement.
10-08-2010 09:27 PM
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Dear Havenly Father The Kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven forgive us are sin as we for give are debtor and lead us not into temptiation but deliver us from evil Please answer this person prayer acord to your will and bless there life Lord and we give you all the priase honor and glory in all of this. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN

Sincerly: Steven Danielsen
John 14:14 If you ask Me anything in My name, I will do it.
10-09-2010 12:39 AM
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