Last week my husband filed for divorce and soon plans to serve me with the paperwork. We have been separated for quite awhile. He moved out because he had been miserable for a very long time.

I believe that I am responsible for his decision. As I look back at our marriage I realized I failed to make him and our relationship a happy one. I disappointed him by making so many mistakes such as not paying attention to him, making him feel unworthy, lack of communicating with him until issues were resolved, not valuing his inputs, and neglecting him. But ever since our separation I see, accept and understand my past reactions and behaviors. Through it I've changed and I've matured. Now I know what it takes to be in a committed, loving, and happy marriage. All I ask for from my husband is to consider giving me, our relationship and our marriage another chance.

Unfortunately, my husband is so selfish and stubborn that he continues to dwell on how I mistreated him in the past and the thought that misery can only exist if we are together. He's not willing to take a chance to see the changes in me and that we can be happy together. He's not open to any discussion towards reconciliation because he doesn't want to give me false hope. All he wants is to divorce me so that he can find his own happiness.

Please pray that God will grant me a miracle.. to turn this extremely impossible to possible.

Please pray with me as a I ask, plea, beg God to ask my husband to forgive me, have a change of heart and be willing to take small steps towards rekindling our love, reuniting us, and restoring our marriage.

I know how hard it can be to focus when the heart is troubled, I prayed for you and your husband that God will heal you both and restore what was lost. All things are possible through Him.

Lord, I pray that the love of this marriage be restored. I pray that this husband opens his eyes and heart to see that she wants to make everything better. That she wants to be a better,loving wife. I pray that Your will be done. In this I ask in Your name,Jesus.Amen.

Father,
We give this marriage to you. I too, neglected my husband; I was selfish and stubborn. I ask Lord, that you give this marriage a second chance, give these hearts a second chance. You Lord, are the mender of broken hearts, You are the mender of broken marriages.
Give this woman, hope. For you are the God of impossible. All things are possible with you.
In the name of Jesus we pray,
AMEN

"But as for me, I watch in hope for the LORD, I wait for God my Savior; my God will hear me."
Micah 7:7

Lord, this Guest's husband sounds very similar to mine. He was unhappy and it was all my fault. However, he had become emotionally attached to another woman & the fantasy that he would be happy w/her & not me. Lord, I know You have been working in me, I pray that you will continue to, and also in this Guest. We were not perfect wives, however, our eyes have been opened to that, and with Your help, we can contribute more positively to our marriages. Please reach our husbands, and open their eyes and soften their hearts so that they will see that they also are partially responsible. Please destroy the lies of the enemy that cause them to believe that only we are to blame. Please enable them to see that with You ANYTHING is possible. Lord, please comfort us thru these storms. This guest knows her husband has filed, and my husband has implied that he has now too. Please protect our hearts and wrap Your arms around us when the crushing day of being served happens. PLEASE IN JESUS' NAME, STOP THESE DIVORCES. Please make the processes that have happened thus far be a wake up call to our husbands, to bring them to You, and to want to build a new marriage with us, their wives. In Jesus' precious name, Amen.

The other day my husband told me that he will not change his mind about divorcing me. He doesn't love me like a husband loves a wife. Even though he has some love for me it's not enough to try anymore. He felt that he wasn't a good husband because I never seem to be happy. A majority of his memories about our marriage are hurtful ones.

As I look back I clearly see, understand, and admit my wrong doings that created many painful moments. However, there were many good ones. Most of the time, my husband made me happy. Unfortunately I didn't make my husband happy!

Please pray with me as I ask God to ask my husband to not serve the divorce papers to me so that we can redevelop a relationship. Break down the barriers of fear, heartache, anguish, and disappointments that is deeply rooted within my husband so that he will feel safe enough to rekindle love between us again. Cast away the miserable memories about me, us and our marriage that is consuming my husband and preventing him from seeing who I am now. Give me the strength to get through this difficult time, comfort me for I feel my husband’s sufferings as well as mine, and help me to accept the outcome of God’s will.

Dear Father,
I come to you as humbly as I know how. Oh Father, how I know this story so well. I too have had my eyes opened to the pain and sorrow of a broken marriage. Father, I cry out to you to please heal the marriages of Your people. Father, even though many of our situations may be different, we all need You to make it right. Let us not lean to our own understanding in our marriages. But, let us lean on your wisdom, knowledge and understanding. Father, please work out all of the hurts, pains and misunderstandings that we sometimes have in our relationships. Please help us to be more like Christ in our love each day. Please Father, help us to put our own selfish desires behind the needs of our spouses. Help us to think of them and not just ourselves. Allow our hearts to remain humble, loving and true.
Father, I ask this prayer in the name of Jesus Christ, my Lord and Savior.

My husband has informed me that at the end of this week I will be served the divorce papers. I've done all I can to ask him to give us another chance. Unfortunately, I didn't see the meaning of the signs and listen carefully enough to the spokens words until it was too late. I didn't realize the awful person I had become until it was too late. Now there is too much damage, heartache, and unhappiness that dwells within my husband's heart, mind, body and soul for him to want to return to me and try.

Someday I hope my husband can forgive me for causing him to think that I'm the root of his unhappiness and as long as I'm in his life he will continue to be unhappy.
Someday I hope he can forgive me for failing and disappointing him. Someday I hope he can forgive me for not thinking and participating more in an "us" relationship.
Someday I hope he can forgive me for not taking care of him and loving him the way he deserves.
Someday I hope he will want to be friends with me again so that we start anew and see where God takes us.

Please pray with me as I ask God to help my husband to forgive me and open up his heart to me again. I pray God that you will forgive me for failing and disappointing you by not seeing your signs and listening to your words until it was too late. I pray God that you will give me strength and comfort me through this difficult time. I pray God that if it is in your plan that you will stop this divorce and that you will bring my husband and I back together again. I pray God that I deserve another chance to have a companion, hopefully my husband, to love and to cherish. In Jesus Name,