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22 years ago i married a great guy now im not sure i know him anymore. he is a pipeliner and frequently works away from home . i usually travel with him but this time due to some personal issues with one of my children it was 5 weeks before i was able to join him. when i arrived in pa everything seemed fine then i discovered he was visiting sex sites and talking to a woman on the phone he met on one. now he is asking for a divorce . i dont want one. he has cut me of financially and abandoned me in pa. i am home but he is being pretty nasty . i contacted legal aide out of desperation but dont know if they will help me or not. one im asking for prayers that he comes to his senses or at least a attorney to help me .
06-14-2012 12:02 PM
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Please see the Work Accomplished by our Lord Jesus.

John 19:30
So when Jesus had received the sour wine, He said, “It is finished!” And bowing His head, He gave up His spirit.

What do you see when it comes to healing for your sick body, restoration for your failing marriage or breakthroughs for your financial woes?
06-14-2012 01:50 PM
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i am hoping i can save my failing marriage .maybe this is stupid on my part but i think we can make it if we get past this. i know he loves me and i love him i just think right now hes going thru a midlife crisis and 22 years is a long time .
06-14-2012 02:13 PM
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JESUS CARES!: "Casting ALL your care upon Him, for HE CARETH FOR YOU."
Praying for you and your marriage....

Please pray this: "Dear Lord Jesus, thank You for dying on the Cross for me. Please come into my heart in a fresh new way and give me the ability to live as I should, a life that is pleasing to you. Grant me your peace, and let your shield of protection be over us all day and night. I have confidence in You, that You will be my Shepherd and provide what You see I need all the days of my life, as I live for You. Thank You, Lord Jesus, amen."

Pray that often, and read Psalm 23 and the final part of Romans 8 beginning with "If God is for us, who can be against us?"

Continuing to pray...
06-14-2012 04:16 PM
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To what extent are you willing to pray and even fast for restoration? I'm sure you are praying now but you may need to get very serious and approach this from a spiritual warfare point of view. This is prayer that is intense, targeted, Spirit led, tenacious and bold. Adding fasting to your prayer also gives it a power boost. Are you willing to place this marriage under honest scrutiny and submit it to God? That means; can you examine the roots of the marriage, both good and bad, and be prepared to make any changes necessary on your end? By that I do not mean your husband had any justification for leaving and committing adultery. He did not. I am also sure that he has found a way to justify himself. However, if he returns, how can this marriage be built on more solid ground and what can you do to contribute to that? The time you wait can be very productive for you both spiritually and emotionally. As you pray and trust God your relationship with him will deepen and you will be more sensitive to God's voice in giving you direction for your future. Protect your emotions by not speculating OR daydreaming. Do not let bitterness take root. Practice forgiveness without feeling like a doormat. Grow and bloom into a beautiful flower fragrant to the Lord and to those around you. Know this: "If God is for us, who can be against us?" (Romans 8:31) God is for you and he will work this for good in your life. Trust him!
06-14-2012 07:31 PM
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FATHER GOD, I LIFT THIS WOMAN'S HUSBAND BEFORE, WITHOUT STANDONG IN JUDGEMENT. PLEASE SOFTEN HIS HEART. BRING HIM INTO THE SAVING KNOWLEDGE OF YOU. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY. AMEN
06-17-2012 04:23 PM
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Thank u so much for the prayers he has cut off all communication with me and all financiak help please continue to pray for me and for him . i believe all things are possible with gods help. my faith has been challenged on this one.im trying so very hard to believe.once again please continue to pray i believe something good can come of all this
06-18-2012 12:55 PM
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I'm praying for you.
06-18-2012 02:01 PM
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