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My husband enjoys playing mind games to hurt my feelings (I guess it boosts his ego) Lord Jesus, I don't know how to protect myself from his hurts, as within marriage this shouldn't happen. Nothing seems to work. I have wrongly at times tried to think am I insecure to have these feelings. But my husband has admitted to people he loves to make me squirm. It is quite evil and my hurts I continually forgive him for. Lately I have been getting annoyed at him and this he seems to also enjoy. I find this embarassing, and wish Lord Jesus I had responded better but it has been many a year and many failed attempt to talk about these situations with him. My newborn i thought would have softened him. Please reveal to my husband and to me why he tries to hurt me in this way. I think if he knew why I might have a chance of being treated lovingly. It has to stop Lord my hurt is too great. Please reveal the cruel treatment of the past was him creating these situations and please reveal to him why he is so angry. I am asking to be in your favour Lord and act to these sort of events the way that would please you.
12-05-2010 03:37 PM
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Lord, that this guest have the protection she needs & also her baby/children. There's much upheaval in the world today, signs of the times, job loss, confusion. Bring about order to this guest & her homelife, the stability she needs today & ongoing that she has the protection she needs.
Often abuse is a cycle of abuse or a person who's own brain function is disordered. Many times it has nothing to do with love or lack thereof. But the inability to allow love to flow in their lives.
Help this man see that it's good to love, Lord, YOU ARE LOVE.
Free him of this spirit of darkness, that hinders his fullfillment in life, his being head of the family, that he love. That he live the vows he took, Lord.
Heal this family, Jesus, we ask this in YOUR HOLY NAME, & Your Will Be Done, Your Kingdom Come, on earth as it is in Heaven.
Amen Bless

Guest Wrote:My husband enjoys playing mind games to hurt my feelings (I guess it boosts his ego) Lord Jesus, I don't know how to protect myself from his hurts, as within marriage this shouldn't happen. Nothing seems to work. I have wrongly at times tried to think am I insecure to have these feelings. But my husband has admitted to people he loves to make me squirm. It is quite evil and my hurts I continually forgive him for. Lately I have been getting annoyed at him and this he seems to also enjoy. I find this embarassing, and wish Lord Jesus I had responded better but it has been many a year and many failed attempt to talk about these situations with him. My newborn i thought would have softened him. Please reveal to my husband and to me why he tries to hurt me in this way. I think if he knew why I might have a chance of being treated lovingly. It has to stop Lord my hurt is too great. Please reveal the cruel treatment of the past was him creating these situations and please reveal to him why he is so angry. I am asking to be in your favour Lord and act to these sort of events the way that would please you.
12-05-2010 06:52 PM
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Father, bring healing to this man's heart, mind and spirit that he would function as the Spiritual head of this woman and this family with the Agape love of you his father guiding him. Father, please have a Damascus road experience with this man that he might understand that what he is doing is not only abuse but is persecution of your Son who died for him. You teach us that we are to live in our families in peace and harmony and that a man ought to love his wife as Christ loves the church. Father...show this man the error of his ways that he might learn to appreciate the wife and family that you have given him before the time of accounting for his actions comes. In Jesus name...Amen!
12-05-2010 06:57 PM
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Dear Lord,please have mercy on this family.
In the Name of the Lord,right now I command to all the power of darkness and the curses to leave this family! Now!
I pray that Your will to be done in their lives.
You are the King of kings and Your Name is Wonderful.
Thank You my Lord

Warrior Blessed and holy are those who share in the first resurrection.For them the second death holds no power, but they will be priests of God and of Christ and will reign with him a thousand years.
10-02-2012 12:22 AM
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